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Permalink Reply by Julie G on October 11, 2011 at 8:10am

I continue to wonder the same thing Sarah! I joke with my friends that I guess my soulmate is in Antarctica, cuz I guess I am not finding him where I am. Maybe men there wouldn't care, who knows.

Permalink Reply by cindy Babs on October 11, 2011 at 12:08pm

sarah. i think everyone will agree....absolutely. your hair loss does not define you in any way. you are not who you are because of alopecia. please believe in yourself. if you read more on AW you will realize w/o doubt that your future is VERY bright in every respect...love is in your future.

Permalink Reply by Nathan Paul Prince on October 11, 2011 at 2:06pm

I have been a bachelor for quite a few years now and wonder if I will ever find my Alopecian Princess...

Permalink Reply by Andy Hill on October 13, 2011 at 3:28pm

I am a man who finds women wihout hair to be quite beautiful, attractive, and alluring. I owuld be more than happy to talk to you about it.
My name is Andy

Permalink Reply by smartassdrew on September 29, 2014 at 11:40am

. I was looking on this site because a girl I dated in college had alopecia totalis and she was beautiful. I feel like she might have been the one that got away. I hope I dont sound like a creep, but thinking about her and and the potential of finding someone like her, led me to this site. I have always found women with no hair beautiful. I am a guy who truly does not care if a girl has hair. I just care who they are.   

Permalink Reply by Sam Montgomery on December 28, 2014 at 11:55pm

In all honesty.... I'm bald and kind of.... want a bald girl... I'm not attracted to women with hair really. I try not to reverse discriminate.... but it's just people have their requirements, there's no shame in that. I'm back to feeling open to anything these days. Hair or no hair, people are beautiful.

Permalink Reply by Tom on May 20, 2017 at 5:47pm

Hi Sarah
Yes there are men who don't care. Both men with Alopecia and men with hair.I have AU and still have hope that my soul mate is out there somewhere.
So my question to you is are there women out there who don't care about men with no hair?

Permalink Reply by Ty on December 11, 2018 at 11:38am

I don't care either way, but a bald woman in my opinion is like a rare gem. I find them insanely attractive.

Permalink Reply by singh on December 12, 2018 at 12:24pm

I think it’s the same both ways. Some girls and boys care if you have hair and some don’t. It’s all preference.

Permalink Reply by Fonsi on March 3, 2020 at 4:38am

I don't care

Permalink Reply by Ryan on November 10, 2021 at 4:27pm

I care, but perhaps not how you'd expect. I'm actually far more attracted to a woman without hair than one with. Shaved, alopecia, I don't mind, I think a bald woman is a beautiful woman. But I don't know how I'd let prospective partners know without being judged, for some reason other guys will question and attack my sexuality if I dare let them know the truth, and I feel like many women might think it weird and avoid me anyways. I guess I'm just hoping to meet a bald woman by chance and letting her know I like how she looks.

I guess if you wouldn't mind someone like me, you should keep looking. Guys like me are scattered around all over, and it seems hiding it is somewhat common. Or you could shoot me a message if you happen to be nearby, wink wink.

Permalink Reply by Rob Baker on November 23, 2021 at 7:22am

I do not care either. I do find women with short hair or no hair attractive but at the end of the day I need some type of spark or chemistry. Looks and attraction are important in the beginning but there needs to be more if a relationship is going to last!