Orbit

49

Southwestern Ontario

Canada

Profile Information:

Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
About Me:
Smooth and silky! I have AU (Alopecia Universalis, I grow no hair anywhere) and have had some form of Alopecia my whole life. These days I try to live my life with purpose, kindness and compassion. I know that growing up with AU has made me a more sensitive and caring person. The fact that I am bald doesn't deter me in any way. The fact that I have no hair is just one of the reasons that I am special, I have accepted it and am happy to help others going through the same thing. I am Happily AU Naturel!

Having this condition is not really as bad as it seems, honestly. I am so used to now I don't know what I would actually do if I did grow hair! The thought of shaving my legs scares me, the extra maintenance and upkeep, oh the horror! Being soft and smooth has its benefits! I choose to mostly wear wigs and I have a lot of fun with it. I've completely embraced the my versatility and I like to be chameleon like. Day to day I am a redhead, and I wear a colour that is very close to my bio hair. I do like to spice things up with different colours and styles. Long and dark one day, short and brown another, curly and blonde, you get the idea. Sometimes it looks great, but next to my shockingly pale skin I think the red is the best. I haven't really got the nerve to wear my bald look out in public (mostly due to the fact that I have big ears!) but do so often around the house especially for strenuous exercise.

I know there are fellow alopecians on here with lots of questions about my wigs and just whats the deal with them?! No mystery, just find something that suits you and work with it. Do research, inform yourself, shop with a trusted friend, and most importantly don't get discouraged! Look outside the box and trust in yourself! You are the most important person in your life, so give yourself break! Remember that CONFIDENCE CAN BE FAKED! All you have to do is hold your head high (bald, covered, with a wig whatever) and SMILE! You'll start to beleive it and so will others! I guarantee that your positive energy will be contagious! I'm happy to answer any questions and help in any way that I can!

A bit more about me, I am a second generation Canadian Leathersmith who owns and runs my own business. I wouldn't have it any other way! I'd like to get a chance to explore more of my artistic side when I get a little spare time. I love to paint, do sculpture, work with reclaimed materials and recycle stuff into art. While I am not musical myself, I really enjoy a whole range of music from all over then world. I like to sew, and do anything that keeps my hands and brain busy. I think its important to honour our heritage (I am a mixture of Scottish, Polish and German decent). I thinks its very important to keep the dying crafts alive. My grandma taught me to crochet and my nana taught me to knit, both of which I love to do. In addition to that I have my own strange style of embroidery and beadwork. I like to doodle and scribble down poetry. I try to continuously educate myself, I'd be afraid my brain might turn to mush otherwise! All outdoor pursuits are of interest to me, specifically I most enjoy: Canoe back country camping, hiking, biking, gardening, sailing, and snowboarding. I practice Yoga and meditate often. I like to exercise to blow off stress. I enjoy walking my Portuguese Water Dog. I'm concerned about the state of our planet and try to implement "green" alternatives whenever I can. I try consume as many organic foods as possible. I'm a big fan of the "Slow Food" movement. I like to garden and love spending time in the forest. I am a vinyl junkie and have a huge LP collection - I just love the warm sound of records! I'm a pinball junkie, I admit it. I really enjoy a nice glass of red wine or single malt scotch. Friends tell me I'm just one of the guys.

~~~~~~ I am Happy, I am Healthy, I am Whole and Complete ~~~~~~
Do you have alopecia?
Alopecia universalis
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes

Comment Wall:

  • kastababy

    hello, and welcome!! I'm glad to have you here!!!
  • Roger

    Welcome.
  • Ashley

    Hi, and thank you very much! Yes, I wear wigs & have been for 8 years now. Funny, I've never really taken any bald pics of myself, but I literally just told my boyfriend that I need him to take some of me so that I can post some on here!
  • Jennifer

    You should definalty go at least once in your life. They are the most amazing weekends of your life
  • Sara

    What is an...LP? Just kidding hahah.
  • Caroline

    Hi! Thank you so much for your input with my discussion! =] have a great day
  • Erin

    Hey nice to meet you! haha I love switching wigs but blonde seems to be my fav! I like that red though!
  • brian kirchman

    thanks for the add....i like your name its my fav gum!!!
    =)
  • Jérôme

    Nice to meet you too !!
  • Dotty

    Thank you for your nice comment. I agree that the artwork is much better than any hairdo!!! I hated wearing wigs, they were too itchy and hot for me. I love how you can wear blonde or red and look gorgeous!!! I hope you had a good weekend.
  • Dotty

    It's national care week...
    time to send messages to all your friends, telling them how much you care about them.

    Without friends
    you would be missing out on a lot.



    A friend should be radical;

    They should love you when you're unlovable,

    Hug you when you're unhuggable,

    And bear you when you're unbearable.

    A friend should be fanatical;

    They should cheer when the whole world boos,

    Dance when you get good news,

    And cry when you cry.

    But most of all, a friend should be mathematical,

    They should multiply the joy, Divide the sorrow,

    Subtract the past, And add to tomorrow,

    Calculate the need deep within your heart,

    And always be bigger than the sum of all their parts.



    I care about you.
    Have a nice day, and
    I'm glad we are friends!!! Delete Comment
  • brian kirchman

    yea im sure they have it there get the dark green package i think its wintergreen or spearment its the best....goes good with beer
  • Susan

    Hey Orbit! Love your name!!! Anyway, can I ask you what kind of wigs you wear? They are gorgeous!! Alos, I noticed in your "about me" section, that you do alot of outdoor activities, like canoeing and snowboarding, biking etc. Does wearing a wig hinder you in any way? I would be afrain of it falling off. Thanks fo rany onfo yo ucould share. :)
  • Cheryl, Co-founder

    Orbit, believe me when I say that the positivity is coming from the members. You guys are really amazing!
  • Susan

    Thanks for all the info, Ms Orbit! =) You're very helpful.
  • Jennifer

    wow.. you remind me so much of myself...im definitely an outdoorsy person too... and im totally "one of the boys'.... i actually have more guy friends than i do girls... your name rocks!...
  • Katie

    Hey! Love your photos :) I'm originally from TO...where in Ontario do you live? I grew up there, moved to Calgary for a couple of years, then we've been in Vancouver for a year and a half now. All my family is back in Ontario, so I miss them, but my husband and I really like Vancouver so far. Nice to meet you!
  • sandra

    Hello Orbit, thanks for the add.
  • Nicole

    Thanks for adding me as a friend! I love your red hair....very pretty!! :)
  • Matt

    Thanks for the welcome!

    KW is a puzzling place, geographically, but I'm happy to call it home. After seven years, I still barely know my way around, though. :)
  • Laura Zinger

    Hello! Thank you for welcoming me and for liking my site! I love your wig by the way! I'm always so nervous about wearing wigs without bangs, but it looks really awesome on you! So now I'm going to go try some on!

    And I love red hair. I was a dark dark brunette before it fell out, and it's only not through wigs that I can actually have red hair. Definitely one perk in being a baldie!
  • Gina

    Hello, yes it does :-) Not having to shave my legs and waxing other parts of my body it's great. All my body is smooth as silk , naturally :-)
  • Nektaria Kazakopoulou

    HI!!!!

    Thank you for your comment!!!
    To answer ur question..... no.... it; isn't a vaccum wig.... just a normal human hair one....... Unfortunately.... it is time to get a new one... have had it for just over two years now.... and shortly after taking that foto (my profile pic).... I decided to have it permed so that I wouldnt struggel with the curls so much!!! UNFORTUNATLY.... not a wize choice.... there were highlights in the wig..... that have now almost all fallen out.... the woman at the wig shop that did the perm, was concerned about this happening.... but in the end.... approved it.... and told me to go ahead...(actually.... what did she care.... she knew i would have to go back soon to get another one cause the perm would damage it).... I sound bitter... I know.... but I feel that she should have told me NOT to have the perm.
    In any case.... traveling to south africa in a month for my sister's wedding..... and going to get a new one there...... THEY ARE SO MUCH CHEAPER than here in greece!!!!!

    You look GREAT in the pic with your baby... (i;m assuming yours... hee hee) I love how you have the band in your hair.....
  • Carol

    Leathersmith - sounds interesting! Where in southern ontario are you? I'm in Guelph.
  • Carol

    You'll have to let me know next time you're in town, maybe we could do coffee or something?!?
  • Daria

    LOVE the red hair! :) Very pretty.
  • Daria

    No, so far so good as far as they are concerned. Of course, I didn't develop any symptoms until I was in college. Does anyone else in your family have it? I always hear that it runs in families, but I seem to be the first in mine!
  • Daria

    Yeah, I've been really lucky. My husband and kids have been great through all of this. My oldest daughter (she's 9) has been especially protective of me. If my 7-year old asks me if I'm going to wear my wig someplace, Becca is like "so what if she does or doesn't.....mommy's beautiful any way!!" She's so funny. And the 3-year old has no clue. She calls my wig my 'hat.'
    You know, I did think about passing along my alopecia, but not until after I was pregnant. It's funny, I never considered NOT having kids and never really thought about it. My alopecia was only patchy bald spots at the time that I could easily cover up by changing my part, so it was never a big deal. It wasn't until later on that I've lost so much more. However, when the doctors started talking about breast-feeding...that's when I started thinking about it. I formula fed all the girls. I figured they're already predisposed to getting it just from me carrying them -- I didn't want to double their chances by nursing them too! It's probably a crazy thought, but it made me feel better that I bottle fed them. Right now, they all seem fine, so hopefully they won't have to go through this.
  • Sami

    Thank you for the welcome, I find you light, I had my alopecia since my 28 years I work in computers and I like you very sensitive and concerned about our planet, I am divorced and I have 2 boys . See you soon
  • oks

    Salut ! Comment ça va?