Going through a bad"patch" in my life

At the moment I`m in one of those depressive states and I think my sense of humour and pride just help me to manage through the day. I just cannot get myself to feel better.I feel so unmotivated and this is worrying me.I always managed to find something to keep me going such as study/work or developing a new interest and those blessed affirmations used in NLP......it`s just not working:(
And believe it or not I sometimes found offensive the joie de vivre and egocenticism of certain alopeciaworld members! how can they be so insensitive!! WTF because they are comfortable it does not mean that everyone is like that.I just think that some people just like attention and having alopecia is another way to show off

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Comment by Dominique on October 6, 2008 at 7:10pm
*hugs* you sound like you needed one or two.

Has something changed in your life? your life style? to bring on this depressive state. I know often it seems like they just happen, but often if we think about it - we can find a reason.

Wish there was something I could say to help you, but I think I know the place you're in - and it can be hard to dig yourself out.

My favourite things to do when I'm like that is to surround myself with those I love and who make me laugh and then find something in my life I want to change and work on it - alot of the time this means starting to exercise again which produces those aweomse happy making endorphins.

Look after yourself, and remember, there are people around you can talk to.
Comment by J on October 7, 2008 at 5:03am
Hi there...I wish I could give you a magic cure for how you are feeling..but obviously I can't. I have some of these days from time to time. I try to concentrate my attention on positive things: friends, hobbies and talking to others who have alopecia. Is there anyone near you that has alopecia? I felt so much better afetre finally metting people that have alopecia..I felt so alone before.
A big big hug
Jo
Comment by Amber Lounder on October 7, 2008 at 1:41pm
Hi Baldiegirl I think what you said is somewhat true although Trying to be possitive is so much better than seeing the down side. So what if we showoff cause we are different. "We are Different"
Sometimes I just want to be normal too , I cried myself to sleep last night. But when I woke up things seemed better. The bad days come and they pass Remember you are stronger for it. You are not alone in feeling the way you do.
Big hugs xox
Comment by baldiegirl on October 9, 2008 at 3:38pm
Thanks everyone for your comments and the hugs too:).It`s so nice to feel understood

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