Isn't it weird how when it happens to you it's everywhere

I saw a girl with alopecia yesterday, and a guy the other week on the bus (probably, you never know). Göteborg is pretty small in comparison so for me this was huge. Made my day!

And without my alopecia I wouldn't even have noticed. Or I might have noticed and wondered why they didn't have hair.

I'm just sorry if I stared at the guy on the bus I was so elated. But of course I didn't ask him, I didn't want to bother him, I should have instead of staring as if I was the the village idiot.

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Comment by lynne on July 21, 2012 at 1:26pm

Yes i believe this aswell. i dont think ive ever noticed someone wearing a wig or scarf infact i wouldnt be able to tell if it was a wig, but once i started wearing them i notice when someone has a wig on as they are a bit shinnier than normal hair and i notice alot of people with scarfs on. I hate when someone stares at me tho as it makes me self consious about it, altho i have my own hair for now and just waiting for the other patches to fill up so can go without my wig for now, x

Comment by Marinetta on July 22, 2012 at 1:46pm

Hi lynne thanks for your comment. Sound great that you might be able to go without your wig soon. I'm on the other end, I'll soon have to wear a wig or shave or something. I didn't like my own reaction and I hope he wasn't offended.

Comment by You can do it : ) on July 23, 2012 at 11:02pm

I always have that but never have the couarge to approach them.

Comment by Marinetta on July 24, 2012 at 2:11am

Do you think we should approach eachother? it's maybe better than staring but sometimes we just wan't to be left alone. Maybe some words of encouragement?

Comment by You can do it : ) on July 24, 2012 at 10:47pm

It happens to be I have a sitution that I have been trying to figure out if I should approach a girl I know. Someone told me she uses the same powder I use to fill in my spots and I am debating on approaching her and asking her if she has alopecia or something else. If you asked me a year ago, I would have said people like to be left alone; cause I had an encounter where a random stranger followed off the train and tried giving me adviced. These days I would not neccesarily mind if someone with a similiar situation approached me . I guess it doesn't hurt to approach them. What do u think ?

Comment by Marinetta on July 25, 2012 at 7:15am

DO yuo know what type of powder is it developed for alopecia or something you can pick up at the hairdresser. Because I have a lot of friends that use powders to get a fuller look, they might have thin hair or just like it. To approach her with no more information than that she uses a powder could do more harm than good. She might feel more selfconsious. But if you know she has a specific powder the support might be appriciated.

Comment by You can do it : ) on July 25, 2012 at 7:55am

Thats the thing I am not sure I know it is the same as mine but that does not mean anything. I was gonna ask her if she had alopecia or something else, she is not the type who would care. I just need to find the confidence

Comment by Marinetta on July 27, 2012 at 3:49am

Today I saw a beautiful young woman on the tram sporting a white fuzz on her head.

Comment by Marinetta on July 30, 2012 at 5:22am

We should have a secret "hand shake" or phrase....or a pin maybe.

Comment by You can do it : ) on July 30, 2012 at 6:24am

lol, I totally agree why dont you create one

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