Since shaving my head, I have been experimenting with different colored scarves. I also got a small tattoo behind my ear.
Recognize it? It's the blue Alopecia awareness ribbon. :]
The artist is a friend of mine who has Lupus, and she has the lupus awareness ribbon tattooed in the same fashion.
Last Wednesday, I met up with Debbie Fuller while she was in North Carolina and was fitted for a Freedom Wig, in case I decide to buy one later on. It was an interesting experience. I got to see a three dimensional model of my bald self on the computer screen. Hehe. She's very sweet, for those of you that don't know her. This was my first time meeting anyone else with Alopecia, but I met her through this site.
On Friday, I went in for my monthly steroid injections at my dermatologist. [I am considering ending these treatments. More on that later.] I discussed the possibility of starting a support group in North Carolina with my dermatologist. I gave her my phone number and email address, as well as the URL to Alopecia World. She is going to send this info out to her contacts through Duke and UNC. Hopefully, I can get the word out and get something going around here.
I also discussed my family history with her. I have eczema and my mother has Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, so Autoimmune diseases run in my family. So after my treatments, I was sent to the lab downstairs from the office to have a thyroid screen done. I was greeted by an older lady with blonde hair.
I noticed when she leaned in to draw my blood that she didn't have any eyebrows. I didn't think much of it until she bent over to fill out some paperwork and I noticed she was wearing a wig. I was sporting my bald head so I figured she might ask me something, but another nurse walked in and began to help her with the paperwork.
After she told me we were finished and to have a great day, I walked out into the empty lobby and turned around. I beckoned her over to where I was standing and told her I loved her hair. She responded with a giddy, "Thanks! I have Alopecia Universalis. I didn't want to embarrass you by asking." It was a very chance encounter. We must have talked for a very emotional twenty minutes. She found her first bald spot when she was 8 years old and lost all of her body hair by the time she was 20. She's nearly 60 now and the only place she can grow hair is under her arms. Regarding this, she said "What an injustice, your know!"
She asked me if I had a partner, and I was happy to tell her that I have a wonderful boyfriend that has been with me from the start of this. I found my first bald spot about two weeks after we began dating. He kisses my head and tells me that it's sexy. The woman told me through wet eyes that he's a keeper. I'm not sure what she's been through. I'm not sure I want to know... But I wish her the best.
I told her that I'd stop by and see her the next time I'm in.
In a matter of days, I met two people with Universalis. Seeing their strength and confidence has made me say "BRING IT ON!"
I'm ready for whatever comes my way.
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