Comment by Cynthia Lee Watkins on January 19, 2010 at 12:29pm

Do whatever makes YOU comfortable! All wigs aren't bad....if you decide to go that way, you may have to try on many brands, styles, and price ranges......

Comment by Alexandra on January 19, 2010 at 12:37pm

I think you should give both ideas a shot and see which one you like better. That way, if you don't like going natural, you'll have a wig to fall back on - or, if you like going wigless, you'll know it for a fact.
Best luck!
Alexandra

Comment by Lyndsey Pitchford on January 19, 2010 at 1:15pm

Yeh its worth trying both options but the problem is wigs can be expensive and if you get another one and dont like it then its a waste of money for you. I dont think you'd get over the fear of having it knocked off or pulled off without investing in a vacum wig that can be several thousand pounds I think. You could go natural and once you do the worry of people finding out will disappear. You look very pretty I'm sure you'd be stunning without a wig on. Alternatively you could invest in a few cheap wigs different styles and head scarves and stuff and just have some fun. Let people know you have alopecia and then there is no stress to keep it a secret everyday.
But it must be entirely your decision. Do what feels right for you and good luck with everything!

Comment by Hayley Burton on January 21, 2010 at 2:41pm

If you decide to go natural and want to talk to someone who's been doing it for 5 years, send me a message :-) I love it, and although you do get the odd bad comment it's worth it for the freedom and ease of having no hair to worry about!! Good luck with your decision xxx

Comment by Linda T on January 21, 2010 at 4:51pm

Hello,
I have also been struggling with getting used to wearing a wig. People tell me that they can't tell I am wearing a wig, and actually complement my new hair style. I am very self conscious of it riding up and moving and my having to adjust it through out the day. I went to a place that does custom wigs. She said my wig was fine and suggested that use a little velcro to secure it to my head. She sewed two small patches, one on the top, the other on the neck hair line with matching opposite pieces that stick to my scalp. The stuff is called Derma-fuse. It is working for me. Good luck with what ever you decide. I think we have the option to do both.

Comment by chani trav on January 21, 2010 at 11:10pm

thanks for all your comments and support. You all have given me somethings to think about.

Comment by Vicsta on January 23, 2010 at 1:38pm

Ooh I can relate.

I have been in so many different phases - shaved with wig, shaved with headscarves, shaved with nothing, hair with wig, hair with headscarf, hair with balding showing...

I think that a wig with hair underneath it tends to feel horrible. Shaved head with wig often helps the wig to fit better (because surprisingly even a small amount of hair can make a big difference to the size of your head!) and actually provides a little stability (friction) to stop it from feeling like it is going to fall off.

One thing: have you checked your head circumference against the wig? Sometimes manufacturers make them a little smaller than average or you may have a larger head than average (average is around 22 to 22.5 inches). Make sure you have adjusted the straps inside and you could always try using a little daily wear wig tape.

When deciding what to do in the past, I have considered my circumstances. E.g. whether I am in work and need to look smart, how much I can afford to spend on 'hair' and how often I would need to replace it etc. For me, there have been times when I needed to look smart for work but didn't want to wear a wig, so I opted for headscarves and had/have loads of them that matched or complemented my various outfits. That might be something worth thinking about also.

Comment by cherie on February 6, 2010 at 12:47pm

I think you should do what makes you feel the best. I wear full lace wigs and I do like them alot! I NEVER WORRY about it coming off, becuz it won't unless I remove it with 91% alcohol. I bond my wig with supertape and let me tell ya that thing is secure!!!! If you have any questions about the lace wigs let me know!!!

Comment by Mary on February 12, 2010 at 5:45pm

Hi Chani- I was away when you posted this and just saw it. I tried wearing a wig (actually, several different ones) for a number of months, but couldn't stand the warmth. AU naturel (Love the term, Rose Marie!) is what has worked out best for me. Check out my page for blogs, photos and videos that you might find helpful. As Linda says...this should be all about women have options and choices. Mary

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