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Comment by Caity b on April 22, 2012 at 5:38am

aw thanks all of you, all your comments made me feeel very better xxxxxx

Comment by holyhairlossbatman!! on April 22, 2012 at 3:17am

I am sorry! You know, I know this may not make you feel any better but I'm going to tell you the truth: if it wasn't this, they would find something else to tease you about. I'm not joking. Many or most people that are adults can tell you what they were teased about growing up. I used to have these gorgeous extremely long eyelashes and this nasty girl cried out "spider eyes" and that nasty nickname stuck. Everyone hated me for being too smart (and I got trouble for that even as late as a Master's degree program from other adults being nasty). My daughter has Tourettes and autism and kids torment her about her tics or for not understanding social cues or not acting her age. I know it hurts. It does and it's not fair. I just gently challenge you to ask older people around you what they were teased about growing up and I challenge you to find ANYONE that wasn't absolutely tormented over something. The only really great thing about this whole thing Caity is that you may have alopecia on the outside, but at least you are not a big nasty mean person on the inside. Right? You would never treat someone like that because you know that it cuts you to the bone. You can put a wig over that alopecia, but it will take many years of therapy for some of those people picking on you to get rid of their nasties. Ugly on the inside isn't easy to hide Caity. Chin up sweetheart. Hair or not, you have a beautiful face and are beautiful on the inside. :0)

Comment by jenna on April 19, 2012 at 11:41pm

Try to be strong, I think that it is very hard. I have had alopecia since I was 2. I got made fun of all the time, thinking back to school days makes me want to cry. It is a good thing that there is now a site like this for people to talk together because when I was young i thought I was the only 1. As you get older it does get a bit easier. The best and really the only thing you can do is 2 just be you, try to focus on everything else that is good in your life, and making a great life 4yourself, Somedays will be harder than others. The people that make fun of you are not as strong as you I mean look at what you have to deal with. Hope only the best 4 u :)

Comment by thebaldface on April 13, 2012 at 11:05pm

we humans are cruel animals, thats all.

Be strong and don't care about what others think or say.

Comment by velvet on April 13, 2012 at 5:35pm

hugs xx

Comment by janice on April 13, 2012 at 2:53pm

You are so beautiful, i always believe what goes around comes around, and it will hit them full on when they least expect it, and the sooner the better i say, people like them are just really insecure with themselves, at least you can hold your head high, you have beauty and manners, unlike them. Be strong, they are the losers...xxx

Comment by Jackie on April 12, 2012 at 7:34pm

aw, sweetie, I'm so sorry. People can be so cruel. They have no idea how painful their words can be. They don't think before they talk. It's horrible. Stay strong, and remember, you are so much more stronger and better than those mean people. <3

Comment by Marina Meitzler on April 11, 2012 at 2:02am

He darling ): I promise it gets better, i remember when i was in middle school, and in P.E. we were playing touch football. A kid grabbed my wig and threw it across the field, everyone laughed and stared, i was so embarrassed, i had to run to get it and hide. But things got better in high school, and now that i'm out of it, it's not so bad. People just don't understand what you go through, they think it's fun to pick at someone till they break, you are strong and beautiful, and the storm will pass <3

Comment by ShoCorona on April 10, 2012 at 6:49am

hey there Caity..... people tease you because they have nothing better to do! It makes them feel big to belittle others. My advice to you is hold your head high and look right at them when they say something. You could always smile or shake your head at them but maintain eye contact. This will make you appear to be the strongest person and show them that what they say to you is like water off a ducks back. The more they see how their comments are hurting you, the more they will do it. You are a beautiful girl inside and out AND that's what matters hun!!!!! Stay strong.. sending you big ((((((hugs)))) shO x

Comment by Diana Carter on April 7, 2012 at 11:27am

I work in an elementary school, and this type of bullying is one of the largest problems I see. No matter the reasons, these type of people will find a reason to bully others. One of my dear, sweet students deals with it on a daily basis. He knows he can come to me, anytime he wants to talk to me, and I will also go to the counselor on his behalf when he needs. I have shared with him that bullies are just not nice people, and probably will not change. Focus on your TRUE friends. They are the ones who are there for you, and who will never intentionally hurt your feelings! He witnessed a student being ugly to me one day. "He dont like you, Mrs. Carter", he told me. "I know, but it has to just go right past me", and I motioned with my hand going over my head. I hope that he saw in me an example of what to do. Does it hurt? Oh, we ALL KNOW it does!!!! Try to hang in there honey, and know that it happens to all of us at some time or another. What they say/do is foolishness. Don't let them see it bothers you. Hang tough, and know that you are loved! Focus on the people that make you feel as special as you really are! Hugssss!!!!!

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