I have been living with alopecia since 1991. Throughout the years, I have had alopecia areata and alopecia totalis. My life is not over, so there is still time for alopecia universalis. ;-) I have had many ups and down and find that I always come out on the other side standing tall.
It has always been a given for me to reach out to others with alopecia. I just did it naturally. I became involved in our local support group in Montreal, participated in the annual conferences of the National Alopecia Areata Foundation (NAAF), and also served as president of the Quebec Alopecia Areata Foundation (QAAF).
Someone once asked me what I planned to do after I moved to the USA. My initial thought was to attend or start a support group in Michigan, but I eventually settled on the wonderful idea of creating Alopecia World with my husband, rj jones, who was my fiancé at the time (2008).
On a personal note, I like to blend femininity and strength. A woman can be strong and physically capable as well as soft and feminine. For a long time, I thought I "had" to be one or the other, and I had a hard time finding my place. Blending both is very gratifying, indeed.
I also like to keep active. It does not have to be extreme. It can be a bike ride, walking, painting a room in the house, or cleaning the garage.
In April 2008, I married rj, a very special man that supports me in my alopecia and is the catalyst and the great mind behind the research and design of this site.
Please feel free to "friend" rj and me: We would love to make your acquaintance.
Hi, Cheryl! No, I didn't go to the conference this year -- I found out about it too late! Next year I am going to go.
Thanks for asking about the book! People are loving it and I am so happy to help. Writing the book was not a choice, it was an inner urging I couldn't ignore.
Big Hug! LeslieAnn
thank you for such a warm welcome and I have not been on in awhile, but I am always praying I was invite to this page by one of my good friends who daughter is struggling. You are such a blessing to so many people and I am going to say a special prayer for you and all of the founders so the Lord can continue to bless you guys to keep doing what you do. God Bless.
Good Lord...I know right???? It seems like yesterday...LaLaLa...
Anyway...
Im doing well...Altho I am actively pulling apart my picture albums to find some beautiful BALD pics.
You know what is SO awesome that I see on ALL of us here??? THE prettiest smiles, and happy happy faces.
Good Day to you...Thanks for the message!
Greetings, Ms. Carvery. :-) Aren't you the alopecic and adorable, bald and beautiful, hairless and heart-stopping eye candy that seized my attention downtown Detroit today? I'm compelled to confess that you had me at hello and stole my heart with your grace, dignity, intelligence, and soul made of heaven's gold. I love you already, always and forever and can't wait to spend the rest of my life with you. Honored to love and be loved by you, rj. :-)
Cheryl, thanks for your kind compliments! I hope to do a bit of modeling of more headscarves - of The Beaubeau for Susan from 4women.com. Its fun wearing them, I can't believe it took me so long to become comfortable in my own skin :-)
Thanx, everyone has made me feel so welcomed and loved here. I did not know what my condition was until someone told me what he had...even though I was not officially diagnosed by a doctor.
I had bald spots as a boy that grew back in. As I got older, started noticing that I was losing hair, such as eyebrows etc, I assumed it was stress causing it to fall out. The last thing was in 2003 when I lost all but one portions..so off it came.
I always enjoy the conference, I hadn't been to the conference in about 5 years so it was good to see everyone again and meet all the new people. Did you have a good time?
hi Cheryl
thx for the warm welcome, and i think that this group will help me because my psyco is down this day
nice to meet u and hope we keep in touch...
Cheryl - I just viewed the video of you trying on a wig at the conference. You looked amazing in that wig!! You have a very cute face and I honestly thing you look awesome bald. I was wondering if you knew much about the wig. I absolutely fell in love with it, it is the exact style I would purchase. You wouldn't happen to know price on something like that? Well, thank you in advance for any information you can pass along.
CHERYL LOVE, YOU KNOW WHO I AM I WANT TO TELL YOU THAT YOUR SO AWESOME FOR DOING THIS. I CAN NOT STRESS ENOUGH THE PASSION YOU HAVE PUT INTO THIS SITE. I LOVE YOU AND I TANK YOU FOR THE SUPPORT YOU HAVE GIVEN ME IN THE PAST. I THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH. LOVE YOU GIRL
KAT
CHERYL, YOU ARE GOD SEND. YOU KNOW WHO I AM AND I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOU SUPPORT AT THE PREVIOUS CONFRENCES. I APPERICATE YOU AND YOUR LARGER THAN LIFE VALUES.
Thanks Cheryl! I forgot to congratulate you on your engagement! The conference was so much fun and I absolutely cannot wait until TX, i wanna get more graduates of the kids/teens camp back as counselors with us again! alopecia world is a great way to get the word out.
Hi I was just wondering how I leave a new comment for people without having to reply to an old comment or join onto someone elses? Im not very good with computers!
Thanks
cheryl i just wanted to say this site has been absolutely great since having my hairloss, you and lamji have been an inspiration to us all.
Loved the videos bet you wanted to kill him (lj)congratulations on your engagement you make a great couple.
Yes, I was suprised about USA (It was my first time) but must say that I think Canada is better cuz I have a neighbor from Chicago and he says Canada is better =) Yes, Im going to go to Houston too! Hope you and Rj will come too! Wish I got more time with you next time!
thank you! and haha i will..as sooon as i come back..or whenever i can borrow my friend's laptop. && are you suree that i'll forget about it?...b/c im only 13 so this is a little bit harder for me..
Hello, and thanks, I've been bald a week and three days, shaving my head was the most liberating thing I've ever done, and trust me, I've done some liberating things in my time, lol.
Thanks Cheryl, you and many others here on AlopeciaWorld have paved the way for me, seeing you all step out confidently with your "bald bliss" strengthened my determination to "just do it"!
Hi cheryl! I am in the hospital after sitting up in a friend's top bunk and getting smacked in the face with a high-speed ceiling fan! I'm recovering and am SO BLESSED to have wonderful friends and family taking care of me. catherine
Cheryl,
Thanks for the warm welcome! I am happy to be here and hope to be of service to anyone who may need a little expertise in the area of hair replacement! I can already see that you and Richard have created a wonderful and much needed outlet for the alopecial community!
Thanx Cheryl! You know when I first started to look online for info about Alopecia your page is the one I came across. I am so glad I did. You are absolutely gorgeous "sans cheveux". I can tell you I certainly won't look like that once my hair goes. Hmmmm I am thinking maybe now I can use the lack of hair as an excuse to get a nose job....LOL
Anyways ....just being silly today. Thanx for the warm welcome and I can't wait to get to know everyone and get all the best tips for things.....
Hi cheryl hope you and rj are ok, my hair growth has gone again, so im back to being bald, ive put the photos on here to help others..........have a great day..
I help painters and carpenters so choose right materials for their works. =) Im also planning to go to Chicago. I think thats closer to your place? Its my first time to Chicago and NYC.
Thank you for welcoming me to the site. I am really happy to be here. It is nice to talk to all of you. Everyone seems really nice on the site. I am so happy that there is a place to go for support.
LeslieAnn Butler
Thanks for asking about the book! People are loving it and I am so happy to help. Writing the book was not a choice, it was an inner urging I couldn't ignore.
Big Hug! LeslieAnn
Jul 3, 2008
Anyana Simpson
Jul 3, 2008
Elizabeth
Anyway...
Im doing well...Altho I am actively pulling apart my picture albums to find some beautiful BALD pics.
You know what is SO awesome that I see on ALL of us here??? THE prettiest smiles, and happy happy faces.
Good Day to you...Thanks for the message!
Jul 5, 2008
rj, Co-founder
Jul 5, 2008
Carol
Hope to meet up with you again sometime! :)
Jul 6, 2008
Orbit
Jul 7, 2008
Wesley Marr
Jul 7, 2008
pete
hoop to chat somethime
Jul 7, 2008
Wesley Marr
Jul 7, 2008
Frank
Jul 8, 2008
hasna
thx for the warm welcome, and i think that this group will help me because my psyco is down this day
nice to meet u and hope we keep in touch...
Jul 8, 2008
John LeBlanc
Jul 8, 2008
Dina
Jul 8, 2008
Mandy
Thanks so much for commenting my blog. Everyone's kind responses made me feel much better after my lonely day.
Hugs,
Mandy
Jul 9, 2008
Mandy
Jul 10, 2008
KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN
Jul 10, 2008
KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN
KAT
Jul 10, 2008
KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN
Jul 10, 2008
ebrahim
thank u very much for your welcoming comment...
i am very proud to be part of this great commuinty for support and help...
Jul 10, 2008
Jessica
Jul 10, 2008
Karenda Carpenter
this amazing website will offer!!!
Jul 11, 2008
Peyton
Thanks for the welcoming comment!
Jul 12, 2008
Renee
Jul 12, 2008
ruth
Jul 12, 2008
Kate
Thanks
Jul 13, 2008
James
Jul 13, 2008
claire
Loved the videos bet you wanted to kill him (lj)congratulations on your engagement you make a great couple.
Jul 14, 2008
Roger
How are you?
Jul 14, 2008
Roger
Jul 14, 2008
Roger
Yes, I was suprised about USA (It was my first time) but must say that I think Canada is better cuz I have a neighbor from Chicago and he says Canada is better =) Yes, Im going to go to Houston too! Hope you and Rj will come too! Wish I got more time with you next time!
Jul 14, 2008
Roger
Jul 14, 2008
Dotty
Jul 14, 2008
Lynn AKA Mom of 2 w/AA
Jul 14, 2008
susan
Jul 15, 2008
Linda
Jul 15, 2008
Laurie
Jul 15, 2008
Linda
Jul 17, 2008
Jessica
jessica
Jul 18, 2008
Holly
Jul 19, 2008
catherine
Jul 19, 2008
catherine
Jul 19, 2008
Lori Younkman
Thanks for the warm welcome! I am happy to be here and hope to be of service to anyone who may need a little expertise in the area of hair replacement! I can already see that you and Richard have created a wonderful and much needed outlet for the alopecial community!
Jul 19, 2008
Lori M
Anyways ....just being silly today. Thanx for the warm welcome and I can't wait to get to know everyone and get all the best tips for things.....
Jul 20, 2008
Roger
How are things over there?
Jul 22, 2008
Lori M
Jul 22, 2008
Roger
I just began my new work. My second week. Hope to go somewhere later this year. One week vacation. Maybe to NYC.
Jul 22, 2008
claire
Jul 22, 2008
Roger
Jul 22, 2008
panuelo girl
Jul 26, 2008
Christina
Jul 27, 2008