Dotty

61, Female

Effingham, NH

United States

Profile Information:

Relationship Status:
Married
About Me:
I am 47, married to a wonderful man named Brett, 2 daughters, Kimi - 29, Kristin - 24, a stepson Zach - 16, a nephew, DJ-7, lives with me. My favorite pastime is chatting with my Alopecian friends online, and spreading Alopecia Awareness every chance I get!!!
Do you have alopecia?
Alopecia universalis
Are you age 18 or older?
Yes - I am 18 or older
Your Website (Leave blank if you don't have one):
http://www.myspace.com/dottyj

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  • KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN

    yes most defintly we have to hook up. im 2hrs away from raliegh/
    yes im in love his name is kelvin. i hope and pray your daughter comes through just fine i like what you have done to your head it look so wonderful it so you!!!!!!!!
  • Elizabeth

    Dotty...Your head tats are AWESOME!! I have arm tats and have always WANTED to tat my dome. Did it hurt? Do All tat places do dome tatting??? I have eyebrows that are tatted, but that is all on my head. Cant wait to hear your response!
  • Laurie

    Hi Dotty,

    How are ya my friend? I missed you so much at the conf this year. Hows Kristen doing? Well I hope. How is everything else going? Let me know.

    Laurie
    xx00
  • Elizabeth

    THank you SO much for the e-mail. I look forward to our friendship. Its been over 20 years since I lost my hair. So long ago, in fact, I have forgotten all the pain involved with loosing it. I have never had any regrowth at all. In fact the only thing I really miss?? Is my eyelashes. I had the most luscious thick long eyelashes. The emotional scars have healed their best. I am a beautiful bald woman. And to be honest looking at all of the beautiful people on this site? Makes me feel even stronger. I am loved. We are all loved. For exactly who we are.
    I will now check out different places in my area for a head tat and start with a little baby one. See how it goes from there!
  • Cheryl, Co-founder



    Happy Birthday Dotty!
  • sgomez

    So you've met Nancy?! She's so nice isn't she? We are going to have another meeting this Saturday so I will def. give her a hug for you! I have never been to a conference, but I am definetly going to make plans to go next year. I would love to meet you, and others I have met through AW too!!! Oh, thanks for the nice comment about my hair. I love long hair sooo much. If I could grow my own, it would be to the ground! My favorite fairy tale as a little girl was Rapunzel. :-)
  • KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN

    hey girl it me your pal kat, give me a shout when you can
  • Cindy

    Hey Dotty....How is your daughter doing? Hope all is well..
    Cindy
  • Cindy

    Hey Dotty, That is great news about Kristin. I hope she makes a speedy recovery...Samantha's treatment is starting to work as she has patching brown hairs coming in. We saw the doctor today and we are going up to two treatments a week now..I so hope she can have her by the end of the year. Still waiting for her new wig from the kids club. Enjoy your kids and I hope that situation is getting better!!!Cindy
  • Jillian

    Thank you Dotty! Your kind words help so much. Thanks for the welcome, Jillian (I'm trying to add my photo but having some dificulty bear with me. j
  • carly

    thank you! how is everything going with you?
  • Debbi Fuller

    Hi Dotty,
    Where in Boston and when??
  • Cheryl, Co-founder

    Hi Dotty, You were on my mind today so I am checking into to see how you are doing :). How are you?
  • Sarah

    Hiya Dotty

    How are you hun? I hope you are keping well.

    There is always next year for Wales my friend. How is your daughter ?

    Hugs Sarah x
  • Carla

    Hi Dotty, thanks! We are doing ok, getting ready for school to start back again! Yay! I think we all are ready!
  • Danna

    Thanks for the message Dotty. You are such a sweet wonderful person. ~Danna
  • Joshua

    Hola Dotty,

    How are you doing? Hope all is well with you. Take care. My friend.
  • Alyssa and mom Lori

    Hi. If you decide to do the get together on Saturday I could probably go in the afternoon. My nephew's bar mitzvah goes thru lunch time. I just got more info on it.

    I'm from Rochester. I contacted the Dover NH NAAF support group a way back and the next meeting is in Nottingham. Once I get real info I might try and attend. Do you go to those?
  • Casey

    Yes! I love tattoos! oh and i absolutely LOVE your head its soo colorful and I like the celtic part as well! this is something Im def going to have to do!!!! I think I can handle the pain if it did hurt anyways, its no fun without a little pain right hehe!
    Thanks for the sweet comment! Delaney is soo wonderful! Actually she is going through this colic thing where she crys none stop for the entire day but she sure is beautiful even with the crys! She makes the FUNNIEST faces ever! o my! and sometimes inbetween her cries she gives me a sweet little smile and it melts my heart! I love being a mommy its soo great!
    I hope to chat with you more!
    CASEY
  • Casey

    I just read your poem! It was beautiful!
  • Cindy

    Hey Dotty, Yes we would love to make it..Have you picked a place yet? Will there be any families with children with AA? We are going back tomorrow to get another trim on the hair..I think it is too much in her face and cut a hair lopsided. I guess I am not used to her hair so long again. This is the best free wig EVER....My email is kweensgurl@aol.com if you need to reach me about the get together..Cindy
  • Lori D.

    Hi Dotty,
    That sounds good...I'd love to go. Thank you so much. Let me know if I can do anything to help.
  • KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN

    hey gurly girl how have you been? hope everything is going well hope to hear from u soon.............kat
  • Alyssa and mom Lori

    The weekend of the 13th works well for us. Is it for kids? Alyssa is 8. I can hopefully leave my 4 year old at home with dh. If it is just for adults that is fine but I don't have alopecia.

    Lori
  • Carrie

    Hi Dotty!
    I live in CT and would definately be interested in meeting others with AA. I love the idea of a north east get together. Could you keep me posted as to where and when?
    Carrie
  • Cindy

    Dotty, are you running your chat tomorrow night and if so what time? I 'd like to try to hop on..I am having some anxitey. I don't tell people about Sam's AA and she was outside playing with the water with her friend and the throwing a disk around and her headband came off and not only did the friend see, but my neighbor and I am freaking out. She wore her wig all day and took it off when we got home to play outside...School starts Wed and now I am panicking that this girl will say something on the bus, etc. We are neighbors..Cindy
  • Alyssa and mom Lori

    Saturday any time should work for us. Sunday I can be in Boston after noon. Where is the tattoo conference?

    Lori
  • Cindy

    Hi Dotty, yes all of her teachers and the principal know and I have already updated them via email. I am waiting to hear back from of them. I will try to get on the chat tonight. But, in any event my im is Kweensgurl...Have a good day..Cindy
  • Dotty

    Hi Cindy,
    What IM service is it? I'm on my way out to go school shopping (yuck!!!) but I'll try you later. Love ya,
    Dotty
  • KATHLEEN WEIBE BROWN

    DOTTIE BABY! HOW ARE YOU? THANK YOU FOR THINKING OF ME. i HOPE WE GET TO HOOK UP DURING THE X-MAS HOLIDAYS GET BACK WITH ME I MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
  • Roger

    Hi Dotty!

    Hows life over there in the big country? =)

    Rog
  • Maciek

    Hey Dotty, thanks for the welcome :)
  • Lorena

    Oh Dotty I love your poem!..and the tattoos are fun!, I am lucky mine only cost me a kiss and a hug. And man I know how much it hurts on the head ! it hurts when my sissy just draws on it! You look like you found the right fella right off ,lucky you!..I am hoping I have found such happiness.
  • Zoey

    Thank you Dottie :) I make them myself... When I first started wearing them I bought them but they cost so much.. and I really did not have the money for them.. So, I started thinking I can make them for nothing! :o)
    So... I started making them.. I sella couple on my website www.zoeysplace.com

    I wouldn't mind making some for you. You can even buy the fabric (so you can match any of your outfits) I will sew them for you :)

    Let me know.. I want to help anyway I can...
  • sgomez

    Aww, thanks for thinking of me! I'm doing great! I just started school myself on Monday. I'm studying for Nursing. My kiddos started last Monday (and I'm sooo glad! lol!) How are things w/ you? How's Kristin?
  • Lori D.

    Hi Dotty, How many people are planning on attending? The Cheesecake Factory is good. I've heard that Firefly is good but I haven't been yet. I haven't been to Vinny T's either. Looking forward to it! What city are you looking at?
  • Bogopaisa

    Supporting my wife is only a snippet of how much love I have for my wife. :-) She makes me proud....every day.
  • Carrie

    Hi Dotty! Unfortunately I'll be working on the 13th and wont be able to make it. Have a great time. Hopefully we'll be able to plan another get together in the future.
    Carrie
  • Heather Lorelle Mattisson

    Hi Dotty! You have THE COOLEST tattoos on the planet, and your pictures are awesome. I am new to AWorld, am getting to know the community, and ran across your profile. Have a great Labor Day Weekend.
  • Lori

    I would love to come. Please keep me posted. Lauryl is doing well, I think we shaved her head at the perfect time because she is now totalis. Kindergarten starts in just two days and I am more nervous than she is.... i will knock out the first kid that says something mean---- ok maybe not, but I am not looking forward to the first mean comment. Hope you are well. - Lori
  • Debbi Fuller

    Hi Dotty,
    Well, unfortunately, I'll be in Toronto on the 13th. I hope you have a great time without me!! Maybe next time I can make it.
    Debbi
  • Alyssa and mom Lori

    Right now the 13th sounds fine. I would prefer Vinny Ts or Cheesecake factory since they have kids meals. We went by your town the other week since we took RT 16 to Storyland. At the moment Alyssa's alopecia is very minimal.

    Lori
  • Cindy

    Dotty, next week will be here before we turn around. Any final plans made yet?
  • Billie

    Thanks! Smiles and Hugs.... I will try to do better to long in more often....
  • Cindy

    I am up for either..just let me know what time...
  • Janine-Connor's mom

    Hi Dotty, We may be able to meet in Boston-13th is my bday-29 again!! Anyway we are in Ct- can you email me with any info,etc??

    Janine-Connor's mom
  • Cindy

    Hi Dotty, that works fine for me..If you tell me where your convention is I maybe able to help you. But, the only cheesecake factory I know of is in Copley. You can let people know that if they park in the prudential lost and spend at least 5.00 in any store in the pru center they can get their parking ticket validated for a discounted rate. Also, for those who may want to walk around Boston you can park under the boston commons for all day rate of 10.00. It is a nice walk to copley from their. about 15-20 min walk, but it goes fast and you walk Newbury Street and cut over to the pru. Let me know if I can be of any help. I go to boston all the time..
  • Cindy

    Dotty, I talked to my husband and the Art Center is in the Theater District so it is a bit further from things, but no far either. You can find parking garages that are all day flat rates of 10.00. I personally like the commons will park there if it is nice so I can spend the day downtown and be in the center of everything. You can always take the T to travel around if you find the walking too much. They run every few seconds...The only other thing I could suggest would be meeting in Fanieul Hall. There is a Cheers and it is kid friendly and the kids will enjoy the street shows and families can walk around. There is also a Joe's Amneican Bar and Grill on the Warf which is nice on a warm day. If you get a head count and call ahead maybe they could set up a big table for the group. If you need help with making some calls i am happy to help if you give me a head count..Cindy
  • EMILIE

    Thank you Dotty!. I was just looking at your pictures.. and WOW... what a great example you are!!! I don't know you.. but thank you for showing me this all can be ok... I am still having a hard time with this.. I try to cover up my weakness with it, and be strong.. but really it is so hard for me.. I think I am getting better everyday. and I am so happy I have this support now.. YES!!!! My husband has been a great support to me. I fear everyday that he will just up and leave... because not only do I have this problem, but because I got such bad postpartum depression after my son was born last year, I was put on Zoloft, that caused me to gain about 45 lbs within 2 months... SO the joke I say to him.. is I can't believe he is still here loving me being BALD and FAT... :) :) SO I am very lucky to have him... and now I am so much more lucky that I found this site. Thank you again for your message to me. Have a good day, and I look forward to talking with you more.
  • Sandra Dubose-Gibson

    Rock on Dotty! Thanks for the love. Keep me in the loop with the great things you are doing. It's our time to shine. I've been in the dark about this long enough, it is time for me to step into the Light. God Bless.