I have been living with alopecia since 1991. Throughout the years, I have had alopecia areata and alopecia totalis. My life is not over, so there is still time for alopecia universalis. ;-) I have had many ups and down and find that I always come out on the other side standing tall.
It has always been a given for me to reach out to others with alopecia. I just did it naturally. I became involved in our local support group in Montreal, participated in the annual conferences of the National Alopecia Areata Foundation (NAAF), and also served as president of the Quebec Alopecia Areata Foundation (QAAF).
Someone once asked me what I planned to do after I moved to the USA. My initial thought was to attend or start a support group in Michigan, but I eventually settled on the wonderful idea of creating Alopecia World with my husband, rj jones, who was my fiancé at the time (2008).
On a personal note, I like to blend femininity and strength. A woman can be strong and physically capable as well as soft and feminine. For a long time, I thought I "had" to be one or the other, and I had a hard time finding my place. Blending both is very gratifying, indeed.
I also like to keep active. It does not have to be extreme. It can be a bike ride, walking, painting a room in the house, or cleaning the garage.
In April 2008, I married rj, a very special man that supports me in my alopecia and is the catalyst and the great mind behind the research and design of this site.
Please feel free to "friend" rj and me: We would love to make your acquaintance.
Babe, I know I shared this with you via email yesterday, but I also wanted to post it on your Alopecia World profile since it's visited by countless other women who also might find the poem to be encouraging. Not only do I love you, Babe, but I love you just the way you are. :-)
Cheryl you are making me blush....LOL It isn't the same thing as some of the paintings I have seen on here. What I do is icing and trust me anyone can do it if I can. I just took cake decorating courses at Michael's...Easy and a lot of fun if you have the time. Unfortunately I haven't had much time since Lauren arrived in Feb...I guess my next project is her birthday cake in December....Like a two year old really cares!
The last cake I did was the dinosaur. I had to turn down another Birthday cake for a friend just because too many things going on..
By the way that is all the cakes I am adding...LOL Don't want to clog the system...
Hey Cheryl
I'm doing alright thanks for asking. How about yourself? I'm slipping back into my game steadily growing stronger every day. Soon I'll be back to normal and even better ;)
I'm looking forward to Julia's book coming out as my story will be included in it and I've also been asked to go to CAP's conference next August and I really do hope to get to that as well. Hope everything is going well for you and say hi to rj for me! Take care Cheryl!
thank you for your lovely pic comment! This is a pic form my kids tv show that is about to come out - such a wonderful project I am so so proud of it!
Sending huge huge hugs!!!
G
xx
Hi cheryl! I just got your email about being interested in MTV's true life.. I was wondering if it was too late?! I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to take part in that! I am a 21 year old college student who has expereience Alopeica in middle school, high school, and college. please keep me posted!
Thank you!
Catherine
hi there, thank you for your warm welcome to the Alopecia World. We are currently living in Brisbane but are moving back to Whangarei on the 20th November to be closer to family and freinds since I have been diagonsed with AA it has been a little hard over here. Do you know if there is a support group that I will be able to visit when I get to Whangarei, also just to get some confidence boosting. Wendy
Thank you for welcoming me. I dont know anyone with this condition and feel very isolated. What a great site. any input or suggestions will greatly be appreciated. Thank you
Hi Cheryl, you are so beautiful in your pictures!!!! You and rj are truly an inspiration to the entire community. I had Alopecia Areta about 13-15 years ago and with cortocosteroid injections my hair grew back. The only support group I knew of back then was by attending a conference in Portland, Oregon but can't remember what it was called. Of course this was before internet was in family homes, so there was little, or if anyone to reach out to.
My sister Jenn was recently diagnosed in May and allthough I cannot completely understand what she is going through, I do know and feel a portion of it. I had AA and she has gone through AA and is now going through potential scarring and we don't know what else. I really want to give you and rj my deepest warmest thanks, prayers and thoughts for devolping and providing such a wonderful site. I knew many months ago about Jenn's alopecia. She has not discussed it in such freedom as she had this past weekend. I have never heard her speak so positivly and freely about it until she mentiond your site. You and rj are truly an inspiration, as is my sister Jenn, in that I would have never have known the spiritual power this site provides to so many. Sarakai.
GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE
Thanks Cheryl... I've had Alopecia since I was 6 years old. I just happened to find your site yesterday while doing some research! I can't believe i hadn't found it before!! It is great to see people with my same problem. THanks!
Thanks for the welcome! I was just poking around on the web and thought I'd look up some info AU. Looks like this is going to be a great friend builder. Cindy
Thank you for your welcome! This place is amazing. I am very thankful to find others like me. Not just for my personal growth but to have a community to contribute to.
Hi Cheryl, and thank you so much not only for the warm welcome, but also for all of the amazong work you have done and contnue to do! I am so happy to have found this place and look forward to meeting everyone. My goal is to become stronger and be able to help others as others have and are helping me. Everyone seems so kind, finding you is truly a blessing. All my best, Ella.
Cheryl, didn't realise you were across the pond. Our brummie night out is like this: we get as many alopecians together as we can and hit the town! Brummie is just another word for Birmingham UK where I live, we'll be out bald and proud in December and will post pics on my page. Best wishes to you and your lovely family.
PS what about an alopecian for president? Jen
Cheryl, Thank you so much for the warm welcome to Alopecia world. everyone has been so helpful. I also read some of your blogs, and I think it is amazing.
Thanks again,
Jessica (Amelia's mom)
I wanted to say thanks for everything you are doing for all of us here on Alopecia World. I love to see your smiling face and all your words of encouragement to everyone here.
Cheryl! You have no idea how excited and thrilled I am to become a new member of your community. I have had Alopecia almost my entire life. But now I am finding it very difficult loosing all my hair again as an adult. I feel as though I do not "fit in" in the work place as much as I did. I feel different now that I am bald agin. If that makes any sense what so ever. I have not met anyone well that I know of anyway who has Alopecia. So this site is very much needed in my life right now. Thank you. I look forward to meeting and talking with everyone about the ups and downs and having a place to go.
Hi Cheryl... what whas very nice of you to write to me...
I hope to at i will like this communety...
Now i see that i am not alone to have this disease Alopecia..
Sorry But i still hate Alopecia... Sometimes i am afraid for it, and sometimes i dont care about it. Thats me.
Thank you for the messeges you give me, it was very nice. I hope to at i going to enjoy this website. Now i know what i am not alone on this disease Alopecia..
Thanks fore that messeges!
Now i know that i am not alone,
I have crying for my self, and for my alopecia.
But on alopecia world i have found more people too talke her,for the first time.
Thank you SO much for the lovely welcome! I am thrilled a place like this now exists! We are going to add a little blurb about Alopecia World in the next SF Group Newsletter. What a wonderful place to be! :-)
Angela
Angela Rietschel
Oct 12, 2008
Lisa
Thank you for developing this organization. I am looking forward to sharing and learning.
Oct 14, 2008
rj, Co-founder
Oct 15, 2008
Lori M
The last cake I did was the dinosaur. I had to turn down another Birthday cake for a friend just because too many things going on..
By the way that is all the cakes I am adding...LOL Don't want to clog the system...
Oct 15, 2008
stacy
Oct 15, 2008
LadyBee
Oct 16, 2008
Carol
I'm doing alright thanks for asking. How about yourself? I'm slipping back into my game steadily growing stronger every day. Soon I'll be back to normal and even better ;)
I'm looking forward to Julia's book coming out as my story will be included in it and I've also been asked to go to CAP's conference next August and I really do hope to get to that as well. Hope everything is going well for you and say hi to rj for me! Take care Cheryl!
Oct 16, 2008
nikki
Oct 16, 2008
Georgia Van C
Sending huge huge hugs!!!
G
xx
Oct 17, 2008
Alessandro
thank you for warm welcome, I'm glad to meet you here.
All the best
Alessandro
Oct 17, 2008
NADIA
Oct 19, 2008
frida.ofc.
Oct 19, 2008
Jbkny
Oct 19, 2008
Jbkny
Oct 19, 2008
Catherine
Thank you!
Catherine
Oct 20, 2008
Amber
Oct 21, 2008
Wendy McFarlane
Oct 22, 2008
gymtee
Oct 22, 2008
Pat Carvery
Oct 22, 2008
rick
Oct 22, 2008
***SaraKai***
My sister Jenn was recently diagnosed in May and allthough I cannot completely understand what she is going through, I do know and feel a portion of it. I had AA and she has gone through AA and is now going through potential scarring and we don't know what else. I really want to give you and rj my deepest warmest thanks, prayers and thoughts for devolping and providing such a wonderful site. I knew many months ago about Jenn's alopecia. She has not discussed it in such freedom as she had this past weekend. I have never heard her speak so positivly and freely about it until she mentiond your site. You and rj are truly an inspiration, as is my sister Jenn, in that I would have never have known the spiritual power this site provides to so many. Sarakai.
GOD BLESS AND TAKE CARE
Oct 23, 2008
Royalty
Oct 23, 2008
Kathleen Smith
Oct 23, 2008
Elisabethanne
Oct 23, 2008
Kirstie
Oct 23, 2008
Ms. Erin
Oct 23, 2008
Carrie Bell
Oct 26, 2008
Beth
Oct 29, 2008
Cindy Alday
Oct 30, 2008
Raymond
Nov 3, 2008
Cheryl
Nov 3, 2008
Ella
Nov 3, 2008
carly
i was just wondering
how do you become a featured member?
Nov 4, 2008
Jenny Austin
PS what about an alopecian for president? Jen
Nov 5, 2008
bugzmom
Thanks again,
Jessica (Amelia's mom)
Nov 6, 2008
JeffreySF
I wanted to say thanks for everything you are doing for all of us here on Alopecia World. I love to see your smiling face and all your words of encouragement to everyone here.
Hugz,
Jeff
Nov 7, 2008
Brandon White
Nov 7, 2008
kay kay
Nov 9, 2008
Raph-Paris
Nov 9, 2008
Karen
Nov 9, 2008
lisa
I appreciate your great site and look forward to being part of such a great group of beautiful people.
Nov 10, 2008
Melea Allen
Nov 10, 2008
Camilla
I hope to at i will like this communety...
Now i see that i am not alone to have this disease Alopecia..
Sorry But i still hate Alopecia... Sometimes i am afraid for it, and sometimes i dont care about it. Thats me.
Nov 10, 2008
Camilla
Nov 10, 2008
Lia
<3 Lia
Nov 10, 2008
***SaraKai***
find and share recovery images at anonymousspace.com
Nov 11, 2008
Betsy Ogrinc
Nov 11, 2008
Lyndsey
Nov 13, 2008
Christina
Now i know that i am not alone,
I have crying for my self, and for my alopecia.
But on alopecia world i have found more people too talke her,for the first time.
Nov 13, 2008
peggy
Nov 13, 2008