So yeah, I'm 28, going on 18. My invisible business cards list the occupation "computer programmer" in a bold, but tasteful font.
I ascribe the following adjectives to myself: Geeky, reserved, goofy, quiet (ninja-like), romantic, lazy.
My body first expressed its desire for hairlessless at age eight with the complete disappearance of my side burns. Yep, that looked a bit weird. But hey, I was eight. My mom was much more concerned about it than I was. After a few rounds of painful cortisone injections, my hair returned and I was officially normal again.
Five years later my body decided it would try the no-hair thing again, but this time on a much larger scale. I mean, if I was able to live with out side burns, I'd be able to live without any hair at all, right? I assume this was its line of thinking.
Over the course of a year my folicles slowly shut down and by age 14, with a little help from a razor, I was ready for my starring role in Powder (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0114168/).
Aside from a bit of transient fuzz on my ears and the occasional bit of chest hair (woot!), I've been super-smooth ever since.
Guelph is okay, the summer is pretty quiet with the university kids gone. I'd recommend the south end (it's nicer). The highlight of living here was when we finally got our Walmart and I'm happy there's a Tim's going up across the street. Have you met anyone else with alopecia before? I haven't even though I've been like this forever. Although I found someone else in here from Guelph, maybe we should all get together sometime?
There are a few of us in Guelph. There are 2 or 3 women I've heard about and at least one man. I was thinking awhile ago about starting up a local support group, the closest one is in Toronto. I just couldn't seem to find enough people around here online to get things going. So, what floats you boat?
So I suppose you'd be the one to ask why my computer clock keeps going off track?? I try but sometimes I think I do more harm than good?!?! The last place I worked at I was an electronics assembler but I've been a welder, tour guide, manager, waitress, etc, etc... I'm actually wearing a part of my african lion safari uniform today lol How do you like the lovely spring weather we've been having?? :p Superhero huh? Sometimes I wish!!!!!
No problem at all. You know, i looked at your picture & i thought "this guy can pull of being bald" & then i read some discussions & in one you talked about not having eyebrows, & i had to look again because I hadn't even noticed that! Thats the honest truth! But you look good bald, thought you should know. =)
Haha, craptastic, i kind of like that word! I think the glasses do take away from it, but I also think you look good bald, so that takes away from that too. haha
Nope, the clock is just messed up! If I turn the PC off the clock is 3 hours behind when you turn it back on. It really messed me up the other day cause I thought my kids were coming home early from school LOL. Just curious, why do you retype my question to you when you reply??? :p If I ask you alot of questions will you write each one down? Do you have a pet? Do you have a car? Do you smoke? What do you do for entertainment? Hmmmm, hold on, I'm looking for 20 questions.... ha ha Sorry, I'm feeling rather witty today, slap my wrist and send me home. ttyl8r
LMAO So you do have a humourous side! Good to know. I may take a rain check for the shopping bit though, at least until I know you enough to say I don't know you. I love coffee too, probably drink way more than I should. I hate commercials too, TV really. I mostly watch a lot of movies in bed at night. Although I don't exercise I get tons of it when I do laundry (no stairs in our building of 4 floors). I like to hike and go camping and when someone will go with me I like to canoe. I'm brave enough to admit I like karaoke but no one else seems game, I tried out for Canadian Idol without my hair but they didn't like my "image". Oh well, their loss. Do you come into Guelph much?
lol I don't drink much myself but do indulge in the occasional beer or bailey's with coffee. I am suprisingly a great drinker though (I think being a newfy has something to do with it). I don't use air matresses when I go camping, it kinda defeats the purpose of roughing it.
Hi Matt, I think have AU goes hand in hand with self-esteem issues. Particulary for those of us who grew up with it - we didn't have a chance to get a solid self-image BEFORE having to face hair loss. Who would I be without it? Probably not who I am today and that I would not change. I keep on fighting the good fight and am determined to make peace with what still hangs on from those growing up years. Hope you will stay in touch as we take this journey together.
Thanx for sharing your humour, I needed to smile this morning! I noticed you'll be at work during our Palopecia meeting this month, we'll miss you! If you are interested in coming to our meeting though, we'll be discussing times and dates so just let me know what works better for you and we can try and accomodate that.
Yay! Yes, please do let me know - we need some men!!! I only have one other guy from Cambridge that might be coming (so far). Thank you so much for your consideration, it really means alot.
Would love it if you were apart of my Book Project. Please Read about it under my forumn on my page. If you are interested, email me at bbibby_org@yahoo.com
Thanks for responding to my blog, Matt. Your advice was very helpful and it made me feel a lot better to hear you say the divots are temporary. I mean...the dr told me that before, but I just needed to hear someone back that up. ;)
Hey Matt :c) read your response to Tim's masculinity post and it occurred to me I'd never considered the age thing. I think it has the same affect for girls... I've been told I look like a teenager too :c) lol.
Anyways - your attitude is awesome so I thought I'd say hey.
Sorry to hear about work and your wrist but I am glad to hear you're good otherwise. I'm living on my own now with my girls and although I do get a bit lonely from time to time I am able to start doing things I wasn't able to before which is great. It's like being a caged bird, set free! I am going to try to get a support meet together for November, hopefully I'll see you then! Take care of yourself!!! :)
Cheryl, Co-founder
Nice to see you here. I am from Montreal, Canada.
We look forward to getting to know you and please feel free to contact us if you have any questions.
Cheryl
The other co-founder ;)
Mar 18, 2008
Orbit
Mar 20, 2008
Carol
I'm new here and I was looking through the members and noticed you're nearby. I'm in Guelph! Nice to meet you!
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Carol
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Carol
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Ashley
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Roger
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Carol
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Ashley
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Ashley
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Roger
Roger.
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Carol
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Roger
Roger.
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Carol
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Carol
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Dee Connelly
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Steve Wolf
I could rob a bank and they could lock you up... or vice versa.
Nice to see you.
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Kelly
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Hayley Burton
Loved reading your about me!!
How's it going over there?
Hayley xx
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Carol
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Carol
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Julia
Would love it if you were apart of my Book Project. Please Read about it under my forumn on my page. If you are interested, email me at bbibby_org@yahoo.com
I will involve men...
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May 10, 2008
Julia
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Mandy
May 20, 2008
Carol
What's up? I haven't heard from you in a while just wanted to make sure everything is going well. Hope you've been good! ;)
Oct 15, 2008
Dominique
Anyways - your attitude is awesome so I thought I'd say hey.
Cheers!
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Carol
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JeffreySF
Stopping in to say hello.
How is everything with you?
Jeff
Jan 12, 2009
Roger
How are you doing? Carol told me about you. Youre the guy living in Kitchener?
Roger.
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Roger
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