well thats it iv done it finally my hair is now been shaved off,i feel so much beter now that im not finding hair all over my house....my wigs sit beter and my scarfs dont slip off.
i think the thing that helped me was doing it nice and slowly,as soon as my bald patch arrived i wore a thick lycra hairband and then started wearing scarfs with a little hair hanging out,then started tucking the hair up the back of the scarf......slowly i got used to my new appearance and then when i shaved it wasnt a shock.....im now a lot happier with having a shaved head,my hair can come back when it likes but really i couldnt care less x