Comment by Tallgirl on October 18, 2011 at 8:33pm

That sound real positive! Good to hear!

Comment by x3Awesome'TTx3 on October 18, 2011 at 9:35pm

Thank you! <3

Comment by darlin1925 on October 31, 2011 at 5:25pm

How I wish that was true for me while I a inside my home with my husband I can even laugh about being bald I even put on a brown robe that touched the floor got a rope tied it around my waist never said a word just walked pased my husband and he laughed and said your crazy you know it then pulled me in his lap and said I will take you anyway I can get you because you make me whole you are the other half of me and I feel the same about him.
My Dad and Brother if still alive would have taken me as I am my Sister takes me as I am but my Mom never will she says I had to have done something wrong in my life to turn out this way but I didn't one day I had hair lots of hair and one day it was just gone I had to spend the night with my Mom in Setember because my Sis didn't have room for me I knew it would be hard my Mom gave me a stiff hug and said you look good kid of course I had on an old very old synthetic wig that should have been throwed out but I kept it and so glad I did when it got time for bed I took my wig off and put a hat on but my Mom pulled it off of me when I bent down to kiss her good night and that's when it started she laughted so hard the names cue ball baldy never stoped even when we were waiting for my doctor to see me my Sis got my hand and we moved away from our Mom but it still didn't stop my worst time is when she ran into a couple of her Girlfriends they said boy you are Blessed to have such pretty Daughters and I held my breath when she said well one is real the other is fake and addoped me of course they couldn't believe it then one woman said she looks just like you Pat only younger my Mom said you should see her without her hair I had made my way outside by then my sister followed me pulled me close and said just remember she is old now hon and besides remember who really raised you it was my sister my Mom didn't want any other kids and it didn't help we were 13 years apart I love my Mom but I was the apple of my Daddys eye and she knew it guess thats why when the first boy come around she pushed me into getting married I was 15 he was an ok guy till I had the first baby then he was hard and mean and everyday I was beat black and blue i stayed because you didn't get divorced then but i did leave and met and feel in love with the man who is my husband now and I know he will always be here it's good to have someone in your life who loves you for who you are not who they think you should be.

Comment by x3Awesome'TTx3 on October 31, 2011 at 11:27pm

I loved your story! Im so glad you've found a love partner who loves you for you ; ! I wish ya the best! :)

Comment by darlin1925 on November 1, 2011 at 2:29pm

You are a real sweetheart you remind me lot's of myself when I was your age just don't do like I did and get married at your age like I did I had no idea what was in store for me first marriage he was in the Air Force took me around the world and back never knowing what to do or say just knew dinner better be on the table when he came home with nothing missing not even the salt I do remember one time I got so brave I forgot the salt I had two little ones and knew nothing about cooking but this day I went all out and made his dinner perfect except I forgot the salt so he threw all the food over my head it stuck on the wall and all that was left was his salad so I never said a word as I got up went behind him to get his salt and then I stoped and thought wonder how he would like a bit of salt on the top of his head so I let him have it and as an after thought I thought how funny it would be to add pepper as well so he also got peppered and he never said a word just sat there first time I had seen a smile on his face since our little ones came along after the salt and pepper thing I got my Babbies and went to watch tv with them and as I left the kitchen and said by the way if you want dinner you are already salted and peppered just turn the oven on 350 and for someone of your size it might take a few days but jump in and when your done you will know by sticking a fork in yourself and in comes out clean he really laughed then and asked me who is going to clean the kitchen up I said hey I made dinner I didn't through good food on the walls I said you are of cource I never did clean that kitchen but he did he never told me he was sorry but it was one night I knew I would go to bed and not worry about what he may do to me before the morning came I stayed till he came after my kids and then I told him you have crossed the line he beat my babies black and blue with a coffee cord me being small never knew how tough a Mommy bear could be but he had a shirt on backwards from being drunk again and pants and I got a knife and picked him up off the floof by his shirt and told him you will never hurt us again ever he never said a word but once I got my divorce and had left he was married two days after our divorce was finial I here the woman he is with treats him the way we were always treated guess what goes around always comes back in some way.I want you to know you are a very sweet and very bright person so much to give so much to live for so much to give don't ever let anyone stop what you really want to to be yourself and be proud I am telling you all the things to do that I gave away and I don't ever wnt to see anybody else be told who you are you already know and I for one am very proud of you take care love and live life like there is no tommorow that's what I am trying to do now I just have to stop living in the past.

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