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Ten Things I Love/Hate About AA
I am now about 10+ months into my life with AA. I've gone through the spectrum of emotions since finding my first "spot," but really feel like I've come to a point where I don't cry, panic, freak out with every new change. Although the landscape of my head is ever-changing, I'm finding it a little bit easier to accept. Not to say I don't have bad days-- and a few mini freak out days now and then-- but they are just no longer "horrible" days as they were in the beginning. I've learned a lot through this process and thought you might enjoy some of the things that I think I have learned from this experience. Here are my Top Ten Lists to-date:
The Top 10 Things I HATE about AA:
1. Finding my hair everywhere but on my head.
2. Only being able to wear my hair in one strategically engineered hairstyle.
3. WIND!
4. The fact that AA decided to choose my head and not my legs and underarms where I DON'T want hair.
5. Not being able to pluck the gray hairs, because they are hairs and I need them all.
6. Finding more of my hair in the vacuum cleaner than the hair from my two shedding dogs.
7. People saying "I have a friend that had Alopeica and it all came back fine."
8. Not getting to "treat" myself to a day at the hair salon, because it's no longer fun and relaxing.
9. The lumps and divets in my head from all the shots.
10. Not being able to have any control over this thing!!!!
The top 10 things I "love" about AA:
1. Realizing my hair isn't really as important as I thought it was...most of the time.
2. Not having to spend as much time styling my hair.
3. Baseball hats.
4. My husband no longer complains when he finds my hair all over the bathroom.
5. Realizing that I am blessed to have a husband that always says that I would look totally sexy completely bald.
6. Deciding to be open with everyone I know about this condition and educating them on it.
7. Having people really understand when I say I'm having a bad hair day.
8. Realizing I can't be in control of everything.
9. Realizing that there are people going through things that are 1000 times worse than losing hair.
10. Finding websites like this that have so many strong and inspiring people with which to be able to share this unique journey.
The Top 10 Things I HATE about AA:
1. Finding my hair everywhere but on my head.
2. Only being able to wear my hair in one strategically engineered hairstyle.
3. WIND!
4. The fact that AA decided to choose my head and not my legs and underarms where I DON'T want hair.
5. Not being able to pluck the gray hairs, because they are hairs and I need them all.
6. Finding more of my hair in the vacuum cleaner than the hair from my two shedding dogs.
7. People saying "I have a friend that had Alopeica and it all came back fine."
8. Not getting to "treat" myself to a day at the hair salon, because it's no longer fun and relaxing.
9. The lumps and divets in my head from all the shots.
10. Not being able to have any control over this thing!!!!
The top 10 things I "love" about AA:
1. Realizing my hair isn't really as important as I thought it was...most of the time.
2. Not having to spend as much time styling my hair.
3. Baseball hats.
4. My husband no longer complains when he finds my hair all over the bathroom.
5. Realizing that I am blessed to have a husband that always says that I would look totally sexy completely bald.
6. Deciding to be open with everyone I know about this condition and educating them on it.
7. Having people really understand when I say I'm having a bad hair day.
8. Realizing I can't be in control of everything.
9. Realizing that there are people going through things that are 1000 times worse than losing hair.
10. Finding websites like this that have so many strong and inspiring people with which to be able to share this unique journey.
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Comment by claudine on October 13, 2009 at 9:34pm
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that was great! love it.
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Comment by Mary on September 24, 2009 at 11:16pm
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Well said, Karen. I've learned that once people "know", they don't have any power over me. I can be who I am, and if the way I look makes them uncomfortable, that's too bad!
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Comment by Karen on September 24, 2009 at 10:56pm
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haha I love your lists!
I'm getting more comfortable telling people too. It makes it much easier to relax (and rub my head whenever I want)! People learn to open their minds and shut their mouths when they know the facts.
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Comment by Kimberly Rolon on September 24, 2009 at 3:26am
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Kelly this is great. Love it!
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Comment by JeffreySF on September 22, 2009 at 7:23pm
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I always love a good Top Ten!
Bravo!!!
Jeffrey
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Great lists, Kelly!
I wrote and posted this list shortly after I lost all hair last year. It's about being AU, but here it is again for anyone to whom it may apply:
The Top 10 Benefits of Alopecia Universalis:
10. The smoothest, silkiest legs ever, with no shaving, razor burns, or stubble.
9. Totally hair-free underarms, and no post-shaving pain when you apply deodorant.
8. Never any embarrassment when you “forgot to shave” your legs or armpits. And, no “short and curlies” peaking out of your swimsuit!
7. Instant relief from overheating (particularly in the event of a hot flash) – by simply taking off whatever is covering your scalp.
6. Salesclerks, public employees, and just about everyone you meet is really nice to you when you’re a bald woman.
5. There’s no need to take a shower before you go out just so your hair will look good.
4. You never have to pluck your eyebrows (or your chin, if you’re middle-aged).
3. No more bleaching or waxing that pesky upper lip hair.
2. If you’ve had permanent eyebrows and liner applied, you never have to spend time (or money) on eye makeup.
And the #1 benefit of Alopecia Universalis:
1. You never have to worry about “a bat in the cave” – no hair in the nostrils means no boogers can get caught there!
Mary
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Comment by Kelly on September 22, 2009 at 5:20pm
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Thanks Barbara. I'm right with you on being so tired of this thing , but since there's absolutely nothing I can do about it, for me (and I can only speak for myself) by being totally open with people, it completely takes away the feeling that this somehow a "dirty little secret." In fact, everyone is very intereted in hearing about what I'm experiencing because most people don't know anything about Alopecia. People are very, very appreciative and I think are very surprised with my openess and they ask me questions. I've had some great conversations with friends and strangers about my AA and I think they see me in a different light because of my willingess to share my experience. I think by talking about AA has helped me "own" it, rather than it "owning" me. Does that make sense? Maybe a little melodramatic but it is so true. I wish you the best. I know it's a different journey for everyone.
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Kelly,
Great list!
My AA started late May 2009. I panicked and immedately bought a wig, though with VERY creative styling I may have managed to keep things hidden. not so sure. I feel like I am losing tons of hair this week (both from my head and from my wig - go figure!) and am getting so tired of this thing! I can see some regrowth, some stalled growth, and some new patches. And the shots in the head HURT! you are so brave to tell evryone. I have kept this dirty little secret of mine to myself except for a handful of people!
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Comment by John M. on September 22, 2009 at 2:02pm
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LOL...love the list. Had a similar idea, but you beat me to the punch. Cheers!
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Comment by meg on September 22, 2009 at 7:34am
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Great attitude! Yes its the grieving for the loss then its hey this is great! I have AU and it is the first time in my life that I do not worry about shaving or plucking... still have some grieving about the eyelashes but all in all having a great time bald!
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