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Hi Donna, I'm really sorry you have to be here on this forum with us- this is an awful disease. But, I am forever grateful for this group of ladies who all offer incredible support, advice and laughs too! Post away with any questions or post to complain and vent, whatever you want- we will be here for you.
Hi All - As difficult as it might seem, I really do think acceptance is the key. I read about all these different things each of us are trying, so many, that I get lost in the detail, and totally confused. It just seems so mad, doesn't it, that we have the knowledge to send people into space, build skyscrapers, make perfect babies in test tubes etc etc and yet not one medicine man or woman can come up with one product that can effectively treat this bloody stupid condition. So of course, we're going to end up using anything and everything. And does any of it work - well, sometimes, yes (for a while), but from what I am reading on this site, usually the FFA comes out winning, and it's back to the drawing board for us.
What I hate is the obsessive phase I go through every now and then - the checking, the faffing around with my hair, the constant 'reassurances' I ask for from friends and family, like 'can you see the bald bits', 'would you have guessed if I hadn't shown you', and god help anyone if the give me the wrong bloody answer!!!
The phase I love is the acceptance phase. The one when I look at myself and say, 'well, actually, Nina, you're looking good, girl. And so is your hair'. When I shrug the whole thing off, and say, 'so what?' When the makeup goes on great, the jeans fit beautifully, my busy life is full on and the sun is shining, and my mind is a million miles away from stressing about just not having a bit of hair over and behind my ears and my hairline has just gone back a bit. Instead, I look after the rest, make sure it's shiny, and bouncy, and I am too.
At the moment, I'm in the 'slightly' obsessive phase. Just noticed a spot where a little bit of hair has suddenly gone missing - where the flipping hell is it??? I'm sure it was there the other day...so I'm checking and worrying, and looking up on this site for miracle cures. The bad news is, I don't think there are any - yet!!! And, yes, that little spot may grow bigger, and bigger, and after 8 years of having this wretched condition, I might have to finally succumb to thinking I may have to go searching for a wig, or whatever else there is out there (why can't they - whoever they are- come up with one decent product that will suit all, be affordable to all, and be comfortable, and attractive, and make us girls feel a million dollars/pounds, euros again - but, again, no one has come up with anything. Like the 'cure/treatment', there's nothing that we can all recommend to each other as being something that definitely works.
The good news is I know that I will come out of my obsessive phase. And will be back on form again, and will just accept that I have got what I've got and I've just got to get on with it. And I expect you will all too - in your own time.
Lots of love
Nina xxx
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