I have been living with alopecia since 1991. Throughout the years, I have had alopecia areata and alopecia totalis. My life is not over, so there is still time for alopecia universalis. ;-) I have had many ups and down and find that I always come out on the other side standing tall.
It has always been a given for me to reach out to others with alopecia. I just did it naturally. I became involved in our local support group in Montreal, participated in the annual conferences of the National Alopecia Areata Foundation (NAAF), and also served as president of the Quebec Alopecia Areata Foundation (QAAF).
Someone once asked me what I planned to do after I moved to the USA. My initial thought was to attend or start a support group in Michigan, but I eventually settled on the wonderful idea of creating Alopecia World with my husband, rj jones, who was my fiancé at the time (2008).
On a personal note, I like to blend femininity and strength. A woman can be strong and physically capable as well as soft and feminine. For a long time, I thought I "had" to be one or the other, and I had a hard time finding my place. Blending both is very gratifying, indeed.
I also like to keep active. It does not have to be extreme. It can be a bike ride, walking, painting a room in the house, or cleaning the garage.
In April 2008, I married rj, a very special man that supports me in my alopecia and is the catalyst and the great mind behind the research and design of this site.
Please feel free to "friend" rj and me: We would love to make your acquaintance.
Cheryl, Thank you so very much. Mahalo Nui Loa is Hawaiian for thank you from the heart & that is exactly where my thank you comes from my heart to both you & Richard for creating this wonderful site, you are a gift from above. I have felt so lost & alone, there was nothing or no one I could turn to here in Riverside, I am my dermatologist & clinics only Alopecia Areata Universalis patient at this time. When I found this site it was a gift from God. To know one is not alone is such a wonderful feeling. You are a beautiful woman inside & out. God Bless you & yours & a huge congratulations to you & Richard, I wish you much joy & happiness. Again thank you so very very much.
Cheryl, Mahalo Nui Loa is Hawaiian for thank you from the heart & that is exactly where this thank you comes from my heart for not only your encouragement & kind complement but also for the creation of Alopecia World, you are truly a gift from Heaven above that I am so grateful to & for. You are that rare person who is an Angel her on earth. You are so beautiful on the inside & out, your lovely smile is contagious, you lead by example, again I am so grateful to you & Richard, I felt so alone until I found Alopecia World & then the proverbial sky's opened up for me as it has for so many. God Bless you both. I wish you two so much happiness & joy. Your wedding pictures were/are lovely, you were truly a beautiful bride & handsome groom. Again blessings to you both, I am & always will be eternally grateful. Have a very Happy, Fun, & Safe 4th of July.
Pam
The drive back was fine, although as I rolled closer to Grand Rapids I had to unroll the van windows, crank up the rock and roll, sing along at the top of my voice and drum the beat on the outside of the door as I drove. When I got home the little Greek heaved a sigh of relief that I was safely back in the fold, and we hit the bed. I don't remember my head hitting the pillow, lol.
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Hi! I have finally found a relative that has alopecia areata also! I haven't seen her in 30 or more years. Last time we were together, we were small children. Recently, I took my mother on a trip to visit her brother and sisters that live in other states. During one of those visits, my first cousin told me about her AA. We were both stunned. Both of us thought we were the only ones. Also, I wanted to share that both of us have thyroid problems (hypo). I recently found out that I do not have enough vitamin D. I am taking prescription D now and I totally feel like it is a magic pill! I feel better than I have in YEARS! I don't recommend taking a large dose, but I do recommend having your doctor check it and following his directions if you have a thyroid problem and AA. Hope this helps someone else. Both things have been such a blessing to me. I feel the Lord just knew I was in terrible need of these blessings. May HIS blessings fall on you too!
Cheryl,
Thanks for Co-Founding this great site! It feels great to see so many supportive faces and see so many folks that look like me! I have only been a member a few days and already I feel like I am able to use my experience to help others. It feels wonderful to turn a mostly negative experience into such a positive one! My mother and I both share this condition. She had it first and it was through watching her and seeing what things worked and didn't work that helped ease my transition into this condition. I feel like I have it figured out for myself and I have so much advice to share. This is such a great site! Thanks! I've needed something like this for a while now!
Hi Cheryl, thanks for your welcome message, I'm looking forward to sharing thoughts on what can sometimes be quite a personal journey. Hope your day has been great!
Cheryl, thank you for the warm welcome to AW. I looked at the website for months before deciding to become a member. I want to thank you and your husband for your vision and boldness. Thank you so much for giving us a forum/community to share, support, accept and learn from one another. It makes living with alopecia a little bit easier knowing that we are not alone.
Wow another Cheryl. Thanks for your warm welcom. I am looking forward to spending alot of time here. It is so nice to be able to be a part of something bigger than myself. If you know what I mean!!! Thanks again!!! What a great site!!!
Thank you very much for creating this website. I have had alopecia for almost a year now, and it is progressively getting worse. It is good to know that i am not alone, because although my friends and family are very supportive, they have not gone through what i have so they truly cannot understand. I thank you again, and appreciate the welcome.
I'm so glad this site is available. At 51 my life has started to unravel, I was in a car accident and fractured my hip ,4 mths after surgery they say I need a new hip.So I've been layed up since 2-4 -09,my AA has started a new cycle and my vitalago is taking over.I was wondering how many of us have hypothriodism and vitalogo .Also I'm a DES daughter,anyone else out there?? Thanks Linda
Thank you Cheryl. I know I will love this website and hearing about other people's experiences with Alopecia and how they deal with it. Even after six years of total hair loss I still have bad days where I just want to scream. I do hope I will some day come to terms with this.
Thanks Cheryl--I can't believe how many people have Alopecia. I am relieved to see and read that many women are comfortable going round without a wig or hat, I am hoping to learn some tips on make-up. I have had my eye brows tatooed, that was an experience. It was actually kind of cool. I am very happy I found this site.
I just want to thank u for the welcome and I'm glad that I'm apart of this site now,
and I want to thank the people who made this cause now I have confidence and happiness in myself which i have not felt that way about myself cause of the way I look.
Thank you again for welcoming me and the support! =)
Thanks Cheryl. I just joined so I'm new at this. Your support is much appreciated. My daughters have been great, and my sister. I lost my mother in February, but I know she would be supporting me right now. Thanks again.
Barb Petersohn
Thank you for welcoming me. Reading this site has helped me lot in understanding that my attitude to the situation is what counts. Thank you for creating it.
Cheryl,
Thank you so much. It makes me feel a lot better knowing that am not the only one that has hair loss problem. Am glad I was able to find your website.:)
Cheryl- thank you for saying Hi! How awesome is this site. I can truely appreciate it because I have been Alone for 21 years and I am only 30 . I have always been blessed to hide it up until recently since my body us finally rejecting cortisone. I would love to help in anyway or become involved. So please let me know how. I am in Wheaton illinois. This truely us such an inspirational site, wow, congrats for being such a leader. :)))
thank's for the welcome cheryl. My doctor says I have aa. I'm still trying to understand what's going on. This just started around mid-July. I am 45 and never had anything like this before. Is this "normal" to happen all of a sudden.
JeffreySF
I so missed you and RJ at the conf!!!
Please come next year it wasn't the same without you!!! Let's talk.
Just call me Legs Joline.....LOL
Hugz,
Jeffrey
Jul 2, 2009
Matt
You better come to Indianapolis! :) 17 in a row - wow - I have a ways to go to catch up to you.
Jul 2, 2009
Pamela Rosse
Jul 2, 2009
MiNAH
right down under................
Thanks for asking
Mina
Jul 2, 2009
Pamela Rosse
Pam
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Jbkny
Jul 4, 2009
traci
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Pam Fitros
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Roger
Roger.
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Denise
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Susan Fisher
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natalie n.
Thanks for Co-Founding this great site! It feels great to see so many supportive faces and see so many folks that look like me! I have only been a member a few days and already I feel like I am able to use my experience to help others. It feels wonderful to turn a mostly negative experience into such a positive one! My mother and I both share this condition. She had it first and it was through watching her and seeing what things worked and didn't work that helped ease my transition into this condition. I feel like I have it figured out for myself and I have so much advice to share. This is such a great site! Thanks! I've needed something like this for a while now!
Jul 21, 2009
leanne
Jul 22, 2009
Shun
Jul 22, 2009
Roger
Jul 23, 2009
Wendy Willeroy
Jul 23, 2009
Cheryl Ann Avens
Wow another Cheryl. Thanks for your warm welcom. I am looking forward to spending alot of time here. It is so nice to be able to be a part of something bigger than myself. If you know what I mean!!! Thanks again!!! What a great site!!!
Jul 25, 2009
JUDITH
Jul 25, 2009
Fonda Lee Brown
Jul 25, 2009
Audrie Townsend
Jul 27, 2009
Shipra Prakash
Jul 28, 2009
linda carraway
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Barbara A Helnore
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Marcy Custer
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Karen Petrocchi
Karen
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Kelsey Cotta
and I want to thank the people who made this cause now I have confidence and happiness in myself which i have not felt that way about myself cause of the way I look.
Thank you again for welcoming me and the support! =)
Jul 28, 2009
Ashley Nicole
Jul 28, 2009
sheila
Jul 28, 2009
Hannah
Jul 29, 2009
Essence
i've only been on this site for a little less than a day
and i'm already loving it. lol. it's so supportive around here =)
Jul 30, 2009
Essence
i feel so honored i took screen shots of it. haha =X
=) thank you.
Jul 30, 2009
Susan - Jon's Mum
It is a very supportive and community minded site. Thanks for the idea and instigating it.
Jul 30, 2009
Charlotte (Tina) Bartley
Jul 30, 2009
Barb Petersohn
Barb Petersohn
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Jacqueline
Jul 31, 2009
Josh Richards
Jul 31, 2009
Monica LUPUS MATTERS Ellis
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Glenda Folkersen Stroh
Glenda
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Janet Johnson
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Natalie
Aug 3, 2009
Brittany
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LINDA N
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Deborah Gay Smith
Thank you so much. It makes me feel a lot better knowing that am not the only one that has hair loss problem. Am glad I was able to find your website.:)
Aug 7, 2009
Stacy P
Aug 7, 2009
Kris Fenchel
Aug 7, 2009
Carly Petko
Thank you for welcoming me. Everyone has already been so kind and I am feeling really good being a part of this. Thank you!
Aug 7, 2009
Fiona
Thanks for the welcome & for this site! Great to be able to learn and support each other :0) Fi
Aug 7, 2009
Becca
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Joe Diaz
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