Rj, Co-founder's Blog (45)

Tibetan folk tale: The Story of the Bald-Headed Man

One time, when the world was young and men and women were ill because an evil spirit possessed them, there lived a man and his wife who were very poor. A devil came and took possession of each of them and made them both sick. As they were not rich, they could not invite a holy lama to read prayers for them, so invited a lay-brother in his stead. After a while, the man who was reading began to get very hungry. It was the custom to give the priests the best of food, but this man and his wife had… Continue

Added by rj, Co-founder on January 25, 2009 at 7:00am — No Comments

Are them fightin’ words?

Catfight Cheryl and I were visiting friends several days ago when the husband sat down at his family’s computer and started watching this video of Cheryl trying on wigs.

When his wife saw Cheryl in the video, she immediately blurted out, “Wow, Cheryl! Is that you? Girl, have you ever thought about wearing wigs all the time!

The husband and I were taken aback and immediately called his wife’s attention…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on January 10, 2009 at 12:00am — 14 Comments

Rename it, and they will come

When it comes to disease, rename it, and they will come

‘Hyperhidrosis’ sexier than ‘excessive perspiration’

Teresa Smith

Canwest News Services

Monday, December 08, 2008

New terms for familiar ailments can result in more people seeking medication, says a study released Monday by researchers at McMaster University in Hamilton.

The study looked at the…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on December 9, 2008 at 11:00am — 5 Comments

What's playing on your page?

I’ve discovered some addictive music playlists while surfing Alopecia World. I’d like to not only thank you all for such wonderful listening experiences, but also invite you to tell us in your reply to this blog what’s currently playing on your profile. Perhaps some other members would enjoy listening in. If you don’t have a playlist, go to Playlist.com and get one like my… Continue

Added by rj, Co-founder on October 30, 2008 at 8:00pm — 3 Comments

How could I possibly date a bald woman?

In one episode of the sitcom Seinfeld, George dated and claimed to have fallen in love with a bald woman named Georgina.

Jerry couldn’t believe his ears and yelled, “How could you possibly love a bald woman?”

“Since when was love about looks?” responded George.

“It’s always been about looks!” shouted Jerry.

Given that my fiancée, Cheryl Carvery, prefers to keep her head shaved bald because…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on October 21, 2008 at 4:30pm — 10 Comments

Which presidential candidate should alopecians vote for?

Which of the U.S. presidential candidates, including so-called 3rd-party candidates, do you believe would do the most to improve the lives of alopecians? Of course, your answer to this question will depend on how you view the candidates' proposed health care policies. But perhaps there ought to be some consideration of the candidates' overall economic visions as well.

In any event, do any of the candidates speak to or for you as an alopecian? Based on what you've learned…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on October 15, 2008 at 11:00pm — 17 Comments

Let's make love, not war

It has been said, “Life’s greatest mystery isn’t the meaning of life. To love and be loved is the meaning of life. Now how to attain those is the greatest mystery of… Continue

Added by rj, Co-founder on October 14, 2008 at 12:52am — 1 Comment

When hair loss is not the problem

Cheryl Carvery I recently read an article that describes alopecia as "a cruel disease that leaves men and women feeling ashamed" as a result of losing their hair.

It was an article about Helen King, a wife and mother of two who has alopecia universalis, which means she has lost all the hair on her body. This happened to her after she had several bouts with alopecia areata, which is the loss of head…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on October 3, 2008 at 11:30am — 2 Comments

Deconstruct your beauty norms

"Beauty must be defined as what we are, or else the concept itself is our enemy."

Beauty must be defined as what we are, or else the concept itself is our enemy Deconstruct your beauty norms

Take a stand against lookism (unfair appearance-based…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on September 15, 2008 at 10:00pm — No Comments

I keep meeting her this way

I opened the door to my home late Friday night and saw the most beautiful woman in the world. She glistened as I fastened my appreciative gaze on her and thought to myself, “What a lucky man!” I walked in her direction because I needed to divest myself of the things that were in my hands, but as I approached her and noticed that she noticed me, I could feel the rhapsodic rhythm of love beating in my heart. She did not initiate our conversation. Rather, I did because I was so pleased to have her… Continue

Added by rj, Co-founder on September 15, 2008 at 3:00am — 5 Comments

Is it true?


But we know, of course, that lookism and other forms of appearance-based discrimination is no joke. Therefore, how do you think you can take a stand against the scourge?

Added by rj, Co-founder on September 6, 2008 at 8:41am — 2 Comments

How we express our feelings is just as important as the feelings we express

I shared this with the Men Who Don't Mind group and thought it might do some good to share it with the rest of Alopecia World as well. Of course, I'd love to know how you feel about these matters.

It's one thing for me or anyone else to accept the fact that alopecians -- or anyone else, for that matter -- may feel the way they do about something, but it's quite another thing altogether for someone to express…
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Added by rj, Co-founder on August 30, 2008 at 9:30pm — 3 Comments

Gail Porter's hair growing back

Gail Porter's hair growing back TV presenter Gail Porter says her hair is starting to grow back, three years after she developed alopecia.

"I have brows and lashes again, after so long," she told the Sunday Mirror. "Isn't it fantastic?"

"I've just been on holiday and I feel wonderful," she added. "I was so relaxed they started to grow back."

The 37-year-old lost almost all of her blonde, glossy hair overnight in…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on August 10, 2008 at 11:00pm — 1 Comment

Expectations of a NAAF conference newbie

In just over a day from now, I will be attending NAAF's annual conference for the very first time in my life. Of course, I owe this honor to my fiancée and co-founder of Alopecia World, Cheryl Carvery, who has been living with alopecia areata for nearly 20 years. Since it is my pleasure to support Cheryl, and given my involvement with Alopecia World, I am excited to have the opportunity to attend this year's conference. However, this means that I am going to miss seeing my middle daughter's…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on June 18, 2008 at 1:00am — 9 Comments

Overcoming the bald fetish problem

Some time ago I started a group in Alopecia World called "Men Who Don't Mind." Presently, this group is discussing the problem of bald fetish and how Men Who Don't Mind can avoid treating or making an alopecian woman feel like one. Please join the discussion and help us think through this important issue.

Added by rj, Co-founder on June 16, 2008 at 3:00pm — No Comments

You are what you think!

Click here to watch Jack Canfield, creator of “Chicken Soup for the Soul,” discuss the power of thoughts and how you can get what you want in life just by thinking a certain way -- i.e., the law of attraction. And then please let me know what you think! ;-)

Added by rj, Co-founder on May 15, 2008 at 3:30pm — No Comments

Count your blessings

My fiancée, Cheryl Carvery, is not the first alopecic woman I've dated. Another one of my female companions was also bald, but I had forgotten all about it because my ex always wore a scarf and never made much at all of her baldness because, clearly, she had much deeper concerns.

My ex, whose name was Karen, also had one of her breasts removed due to cancer and constantly battled the disease after being diagnosed in her late 20’s. She endured a mastectomy and a seemingly endless…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on May 6, 2008 at 1:00am — 1 Comment

This moment's for you

Life has a way of thrusting upon each of us conditions and circumstances that challenge us to discover what truly matters. Of course, to seize such moments and growth opportunities, we must first recognize them. We must see past whatever problem we're facing and truly grasp the growth potential. As one old song counsels, the one thing we must do right is, the day we start to fight, keep our eyes on the prize; for it's really how we deal with things, and not really the things we… Continue

Added by rj, Co-founder on May 2, 2008 at 11:30am — No Comments

Life is a bowl of Shreddies

Cheryl and I saw this Shreddies billboard while driving around Windsor, Ontario earlier today. I just had stop and take a picture, not only because the sign is funny, but also because it teaches a great lesson about coping with life and its challenges. Oftentimes, the real problem in our lives is the negative ways in which we're looking at things. As I wrote in an essay titled "This Joy I Have,"

Problems tend not…
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Added by rj, Co-founder on April 19, 2008 at 4:00pm — 3 Comments

Alopecia and lessons about love

If there's any good thing living with alopecia can do for you, it's make you more sensitive and responsive to the support needs of other human beings. Like most, if not all, of life's challenges, coping with alopecia calls attention to the very human need for acceptance, affirmation, and other forms vital emotional assistance. It's yet another reminder that it is not good for humans to be alone, isolated and insulated from the embrace and encouragement of those around…

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Added by rj, Co-founder on April 17, 2008 at 11:00am — 2 Comments

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