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Comment by Marinetta on July 26, 2012 at 3:02am

Eva, Youtube is a great source of inspiration when it comes to tying scarves or turban style or just fun ways of mixing it up. and i agree with Alliegator on the silk scarves, even with some hair it doesn't stay put.

Jenx, I wouldn't tell anyone, or care, if it wasn't for the fact that sine I'm a consultant I am dependent on my boss to "give" me work or "sell" me so to speak to companies and projects. I need him to know I'm allright.

I've come to the conclusion that I'll mention it, so that he knows and if my collegues ask him about my hair he knows what to say. But I won't make a big deal out of it, he's sensible enough not to let this affect how he treats me. Now that I've worked here for a couple of weeks I know him better, at least I think I do.

And Tallgirl thanks for your comment, I'm sorry to say that this is a really small company (20p) with a technical focus so there is no HR department ( and probably no policy for how to handle harassment of different sorts, I need to fix that btw)

You guys are great, thank you for all your input!

Comment by Alliegator on July 25, 2012 at 5:43pm

Jenx has a good, valid point. Also, it makes you human, which can be good or bad. I brought mine up in a casual conversation, and only because we were discussing my new hair style. Like I said, if you don't make it a big deal, then they won't either.

Eva: You can use the majority of scarves as a head wrap. I wear scarves from Target, and all kinds of stores as head wraps. I've been meaning to take pictures of how I do it to provide a How-To guide. The more you do it, the easier it gets. Just stay away from silk scarves, because they won't stay put on your head.

Comment by jenx on July 25, 2012 at 11:15am

Dont tell them.
Deal with your stuff privately.
Eventually, 1 day, you can surprise them in a casual conversation....
I strongly believe that in the work field it is to your advantage to look strong and keep out of sight what makes you feel vulnerable.
That is my view on things...yous can be different but whatever you choose, good luck and take care :)

Comment by Sunflower25 on July 24, 2012 at 1:36pm

Have you tried ebay?

Comment by eva on July 24, 2012 at 1:29pm

where can i buy pretty scarves for my head? i hate bandanas now but its all i can find and not expensive...

Comment by Marinetta on July 24, 2012 at 7:04am

Thanks for giving me an insight in how you guys handled things! Its hard to find others that I can relate to or talk to, my family and friends are supportive and love me no matter what but sometimes you need someone that actually dealt with the same thing. Thanks again.

Comment by Sunflower25 on July 24, 2012 at 6:45am

I just went with "I'm sick and I'm losing my hair." The doc had me on oral steroids at the time and those did a number on me - caused sudden mood swings. THAT was my problem at work. :-/

Comment by Joanne on July 23, 2012 at 9:31pm

I am going through some of the same concerns. My hair is also covering the large areas but it seems to be only a matter of time. I am a teacher as well and have been open with my closest colleagues about it. When the time comes to wear a wig I think I will let everyone know at a staff meeting so that there is no speculation. I had breast cancer years ago and many people might wonder if it has returned.

Comment by Tallgirl on July 23, 2012 at 1:45pm

I told other teachers, aides and administrators at the teacher in-service before the school years started, in a group, showing by spinning my wig on my head. I let them know I might be needing support if any of the students harrassed me. No problems after that. Could you just call them all into a meeting with human resources personnel back-up, and tell all (so they know human resources is aware, and they can't single you out) to get it out of the way? After all, we all get those harrassment rules in printed form at the start of any job...

Comment by Marinetta on July 23, 2012 at 1:43pm

Thanks Alliegator, your answer makes me really happy. I realised today that my hair, even with my camouflage haircut, doesn't work anymore. It was just a matter of time...

It'll be scarfs and hats until I get my wig, everybody's on vacation so its taking extra long :/

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