So it's been two years since I've been here. Last blog I wrote I stop drawing on eye brows.... Hehe.. I am excited to say I fully have my brows back! Completely. I pray this time it stays but if it goes I have the choice to draw on or keep off.



One of the very things I have enjoyed from 2010 till now is FREEDOM. I have been bald and happy instead of hiding being bald and depress. Of course there are days I wish I had nice flowing hair, or I could hide in a crowd with a long hair wig.… Continue

I decided this morning I am DONE drawing on eyebrows. Eye shadow a little foundation is all I need. No more worrying about smudged eyebrows on hot days! I am sitting at work and I could care less about them. LOL I am sooo happy to just be me. I thought to myself people must think I have no self-esteem just to walk out no wig no eyebrow, BUT ITS ACTUALLY the opposite! I have been happier, bolder, feeling good about my appearance, and have a greater self esteem!! (I thought this would never… Continue

Finally, I was sitting at home and my daughter said, “Mommy you don’t have to come to my school with a hat on or a scarf. I love you just the way you are.” WHAT?!?! I said okay, had a long day and I knew she would NEVER EVER want me to be bald around her school. The next morning I get on the bus and train bald. I am getting off the train I say are you sure you want me to be bald around your school?



I pulled my hat out of my pocket to see if she would like me to put it on. She said NO… Continue

So the guy I told that I have alopecia. 2 ½ weeks ago I called our relationship off for good reasons. I found out that because a guy accepts you with alopecia doesn’t mean it will be a match made in heaven, it only made me realize that a lot of other guys will be just accepting.



First he never called/text after working hours. And he was always too busy. Too busy to call/text/be together, sounds like maybe a wife @home. I said what am I doing dating you? So after trying to explain… Continue

Today is day 4 of Bald life. Today is defiantly tough for me. First my daughter asked me to wear a scarf to her school. I agreed. When I got to the train station I decided I was not comfortable with it. So I took it off while she wasn’t looking. She did not notice for 2 minutes as we were talking about a picture and walking. The train came and she looked up at me and tears ran down her face. She asked , you’re not going to my school like that are you? I explained to her that I did not feel… Continue

I changed my wig sunday. I usually change it on Sundays because I like to get feedback at church (or no feedback). I brought a bob hair style and it was long. I wore it to church I got comments like you look like your mother to just stares. SO I went home did a little cutting and it came out great. I went to work the next day and the response I got from women were “Did you do something different to your makeup, it looks great but different?” (did not change my makeup). The comments I got from… Continue

Okay i left work Yesterday without a hat on. I had my wig on. But I like to where my hat because it covers everything. And the first thought that came to me was someone on the train is going to stare down at my hair trying to figure out if its a wig, weave, or not, but i left anyway made it on the train without anyone staring. I decided to go shopping and after work i forgot about the whole not wearing a hat thing. As i finished shopping and stood online to buy pizza, thinking of what type to… Continue