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Well our stories are all so similar I could almost interchange mine for any of yours. Eyebrow loss, odd scalp sensations, skin issues, progressive hairline loss etc., the hunt for the diagnosis, the horror at finally getting it. I know the fear, the sadness, the obsession with hairlines. I have been on multiple drugs as have all of you. It's going on 5 years since this all started ( at least that I noticed) and while I have stretches of time when it seems to have slowed, it still marches on.
A tip for the summer if your brows are thinning or gone: I found a product called Wunderbrow , online, about $20.00. It's a gel with some fibers in it so it creates a decent brow. It doesn't come off while swimming, that's the best part. However, I do want to try microblading as my brows are gone. Anyone know of a good place to have this done in the greater eastern Pennsylvania region?
And finally, I have three questions/points:
1. Why do docs continue to prescribe and inject drug after drug when we all know they don't work and there is no cure or surefire treatment? Why do we risk our money, our eyes and kidneys and skin for something we know doesn't work? Our hopes our dashed further with each failed dug. Money is gone and the hair loss continues. It seems unethical to me.
2. If the vast majority of women who have this are post menopausal, doesn't it seem logical that their is a hormonal dimension to this?
3. Is there anyone out there that does NOT or has NOT EVER colored or dyed their hair? I have done it for so long, I can't help but think this might be related, especially considering it could be an autoimmune disorder.
Ok thanks for your time. Keep posting, venting, joking, and supporting each other. Do whatever it takes to get thru this, and yes, including putting up with the dummies that say 'well just be grateful it's not cancer'. You are all amazing, brave, kind and a great help to me especially on the bad days.
~Beez
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Hi Beez, I couldn't have described this ghastly condition better myself......i agree with everything you've said.I also have had this for about 5 years since it started in 2012 with terrible scalp dysesthesia & hiarloss from front & around ears, not to mention awful change in quality (& looking back suspect it may have started a couple years before then (incidiously). I have chosen not to take any medication as all the research i did in first year & since tells me that there's no conclusive efficacy in anything that has been thrown at this relentless progressive diisease. I agree, where a the ethics within the medical profession prescribing such harsh drugs that just have no evidence as effective. My ffa/lpp . (After the first 18 mths or so) of symptons slowed considerably incl much milder scalp pain; but it flared up again a few mths ago, after about 2 & half years of v slow progression. The symptons seem to wax & wane over time (even without any drugs), so v difficult to prove when drugs help or if its just the natural course of disease. Thanks for yours & everyone elses comments on this site......i know everyone experiences this differently....& need to approach it in their own way......but one thing we all have in common is the challenge to our sense of well being staying in tact along with our emotional well being, & the physical & social interaction changes this disease forces upon us....thankyou all for your comments
I've never colored or dyed my hair using synthetic chemicals except by using Sun-In for a couple months in my teens. I did however use a pure plant-based henna at the time I was diagnosed and for a couple years prior. However, I have hair loss in other areas of my body that have not been exposed at all to *any* hair dyes. I guess there may be a chance the henna triggered a systemic reaction but I'm more inclined to think there may be more of a link between chemical sunscreen and FFA (all areas where I have loss have been exposed to regular application to chemical sunscreen).
My father, too, shows signs of FFA although never diagnosed and he's never used hair dyes.
Great questions and some interesting responses. I am 67, have never dyed my hair, straightened it only in my teens. And since having a sunstroke at 17, and multiple autoimmune diseases and medications since then, have not used sunscreen either. [Yes it's hot in long sleeves and hats all summer!]
I'm specially interested in Jules' response, that it waxes and wanes even with no medication or treatment at all! I'm seriously thinking about stopping my treatment by the end of this year. I'm ready to go ahead and just deal with whatever's going to be left, and stop fixating on it as it goes.
As for the other body hair, I was completely surprised to discover I didn't have a single hair on my arms. Never noticed it leaving. But for 3 years I was envious of all the ladies saying they'd lost the hair on their legs. I am still shaving, but at last it is decreasing.
This forum has been a true friend along this challenging road, even though I may go months without checking in. But my derm asks me every time I go, "Anything new on your forum?"
Best wishes to all
First, I can definitely vouch for Wunderbrow! Funnily enough, I just got it off of Amazon 2 days ago and it is great, my brows are very thin and it thickens them up and it stays on, I mean it really does stay on until I wash it off. As far as coloring hair, I didn't really start coloring my hair until my late 30's (I am 52) even then it was done very sporadically until my late 40's. I was also surprised like Classical Anne last summer when I looked down at my arms and realized I didn't have one hair on my forearms & same as Anne, barely shaving my legs. I don't know about this sunscreen connection- I do know that if I use regular sunscreen, not for sensitive skin or just zinc oxide my forearms get very itchy unless I wash it off as soon as I can. But, I will put up with the itching if it means that I can avoid skin cancer. I have also stopped all medication, except for Clobetasol as I have mentioned before for itchy skin-
First, I can definitely vouch for Wunderbrow! Funnily enough, I just got it off of Amazon 2 days ago and it is great, my brows are very thin and it thickens them up and it stays on, I mean it really does stay on until I wash it off.
As far as coloring hair, I didn't really start coloring my hair until my late 30's (I am 52) even then it was done very sporadically until my late 40's.
I was also surprised like Classical Anne last summer when I looked down at my arms and realized I didn't have one hair on my forearms & same as Anne, barely shaving my legs.
I don't know about this sunscreen connection- I do know that if I use regular sunscreen, not for sensitive skin or just zinc oxide my forearms get very itchy unless I wash it off as soon as I can. But, I will put up with the itching if it means that I can avoid skin cancer.
I have also stopped all medication, except for Clobetasol as I have mentioned before for itchy skin- luckily I don't have much itchiness on my scalp, though it is tender.
This disease sucks, it really does and as I've said before, I am so thankful for this forum!
Ohhhh. . .I'm so sorry you're having a hard time right now. It is SO unfair and you have every right to be mad that this horrible disease has changed all of us in so many ways. I am a different person because of this. I used to be a confidant strong person and now I just want to hide. I was just on vacation with my family but I didn't go swimming because I couldn't bear the thought of my family seeing me this way. I tried to wear hats and it drove me crazy because my scalp is so senstivie, How can I ever wear a wig? Will I have to wear a wig when my girls get married? I am right there with you and it makes me cry. . .
No easy answers and such an unbelievable journey for all of us. Somehow, someway we can't let this awful disease take away our lives. Thinking about you
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