Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

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Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

This group is for people who are new to alopecia. It's a place to learn the essentials of coping and how to continue living life to the fullest despite the condition. More experienced alopecians are also invited to offer support and guidance.

Members: 545
Latest Activity: Feb 9, 2020

Tips for Coping with Alopecia from Day One

1. Love yourself unconditionally, with or without hair.

2. Consult a physician when you think your hair loss has become excessive or abnormal.

3. Get a second or third opinion if you need confirmation of a physician’s diagnosis.

4. Educate yourself about alopecia (hair loss), its many possible causes, traditional and alternative treatments, treatment costs, possible side-effects, and other options (e.g., wigs, scarves, etc.).

5. Remember that bald is beautiful, too.

6. Seek the advice of your physician and people who love and care about you before making decisions about treatments or lifestyle changes.

7. Join an alopecia support group to receive insight and inspiration from others who are living with hair loss.

8. Give others who may also be concerned (e.g., your employer, school, or church) appropriate information about your condition.

9. Maintain your emotional well-being by learning positive strategies for coping with depression, rejection, ridicule, stress, anxiety, and other negative feelings and experiences. Also develop conflict management skills, and other strong interpersonal skills, which you can use when dealing with people who choose to remain ignorant or insensitive. In other words, see a professional counselor, if you must.

10. Live life to the fullest, which includes allowing yourself to truly love and be loved and taking full advantage of the new opportunities alopecia opens to you.

Cheryl Carvery and richard jones (rj) encourage you to share these 10 helpful suggestions with others who are dealing with alopecia.

Discussion Forum

Scaring Alopecia

Started by Peace Apr 20, 2017. 0 Replies

Newly balding

Started by Momuv2. Last reply by Momuv2 Aug 23, 2015. 2 Replies

just diagnosed and scared...

Started by Catia. Last reply by Aly Dec 18, 2014. 5 Replies

How do I do this?

Started by MelodyAutumn. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 18, 2014. 6 Replies

Development of AA

Started by Cam. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 10, 2014. 1 Reply

New to this...

Started by ladyeury. Last reply by wtfsamikinz Nov 8, 2014. 2 Replies

Just diagnosed

Started by Kteacher. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 9 Replies

Children with alopecia in New Zealand

Started by MummyWendy. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 1 Reply

Getting Past the Pain - Three Things You Need to Know

Started by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Oct 13, 2014. 0 Replies

Sad

Started by bobbi. Last reply by BarbaraK Oct 5, 2014. 8 Replies

B-12 shots

Started by Michelle Jun 27, 2014. 0 Replies

Just realized it's probably not coming back...

Started by SBXBlackJade. Last reply by Angie Jun 16, 2014. 1 Reply

Question About AA and Eyelashes

Started by Michelle. Last reply by Kathryn Jun 11, 2013. 6 Replies

It's been a (long) Year

Started by Marissa. Last reply by Fay May 28, 2013. 5 Replies

New to this World

Started by Jackie E.. Last reply by Catia May 28, 2013. 9 Replies

Trying to learn how to move forward

Started by Lindsay Rossi. Last reply by Lindsay Rossi Apr 12, 2013. 3 Replies

Unpigmented regrowth?

Started by Jaclyn. Last reply by Annette Mar 30, 2013. 9 Replies

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Comment by Cheryl, Co-founder on November 28, 2008 at 11:41am
LOL! Jack, I love it. I too have had my share of fun with my Alopecia. I think it lightens it up.
Comment by Children's Alopecia Project on November 24, 2008 at 9:44pm


The Children's Alopecia Project is based in Wyomissing, PA. We help children with alopecia build self-esteem, provide support and raise awareness. We are looking for volunteers for ALOPECIAPALOOZA August 7 -9, 2009 at the Sheraton Society Hill, if you are interested reply to this or email me at jefferywoytovich@yahoo.com

On Saturday, March 28, 2008 we have our Spring Spectacular Silent Auction. Open Bar, food, Berks County Jazz Fest Location, hundreds of silent auction items. The last four years we have had a total of 1400 attend raising $140,000! We are always looking for sponsorships and donations too!!
Comment by Stacey Benioni on October 30, 2008 at 11:25pm
Hi there, I'm a newbee.New to this world, however it's so exciting and so supportive as to what we all go through each day.

Well I first noticed bald patches around April of this year, just after my cat died. I thought that my hair was going to grow back anyways and this was normal. But then my hair just kept on falling out. I cried every time I looked in the mirror. I'm a very strong person and most of the people I know, knew what I was like if you were to go on my bad side, lol. I would keep building strength and courage when I would step out the door to keep reminding myself that I'm still beautiful. I have the boyfriend that I love. However, it wasn't until August I told my mother and sisters about my bald patches, actually one spotted them. My boyfriend took me to the doctors, i didn't want to go, i'm very stubbon. Then she told me that I had AA. I wanted to cry, but being the strong person that I am, I held it in. She gave me cream for my head but I stopped using it after 1 week. I lost hope and faith. I got a second opinion from another doctor, this time with my mum. Same thing but this time I was informed to see a skin professional. Had to wait till October 20th my lil sisters 15ht birthday so hear the news...

So there you go, a short insite to what I had to go through. The sad thing about this is that, my hair was the only perfect thing on my body and now it's taken away from me. I loved my hair so much, I would brush it 100 times before I went to sleep, I would not use any cheep products on my hair and I only dyd it once a year. Now I don't have to go through those any more, sad as it sounds but now I have more time to enjoy those little things in life, like love, friendships, saving money and taking care of my health.
I'm just starting out the support groups, and i'm enjoying it so far.
Right now, it's exam time so i'm spending most of the time with my head in the books and keeping an open mind about the bigger picture. I'm still wondering if I should shave what hair I have left or get a wig. I love wearing scarves they are so fashionable and HOT in summer lol. I really want to find support groups where we can meet up in person. Anyone out there from New Zealand that has suggestions or can help me?????
Thanks for letting me tell you my story...mwah!!!!!!!
Comment by Jenn on October 6, 2008 at 11:28am
desert angel - thnx so much, i love hugs!
Comment by Jenn on October 6, 2008 at 11:27am
hey mel,welcome. i am just a couple of months ahead of you, but i never knew anyone with this so it is really hard for me. before i found this site (last week) i didn't know there were other people like me and i am struggling to deal with it. but this site has been such a god send. i know that i am not alone and there is always several peole that answer questions.
Comment by mel on October 6, 2008 at 10:07am
hi im mel, im 33 and have olpecia im not sure what type i have has it is due to havin lupus sle, i still have hair at the moment but it is fallin out very rapidly. Im not sure what treatment i will be taking if any has the side effects maybe worst than losing my hair, i was fortune enough to meet gail porter at work last year before i had olpecia i admired her courage and will be brave enough to shave my hair when the time comes, im glad i found this website as it will help me when no-one else understands how im feeling
Comment by DesertAngel on October 2, 2008 at 10:48pm
Hi, Jennifer and SylviaB. Wish I could give you a great big hug because I'm having a hard time dealing with this too. But you know what? It's getting better for me and it will for you too. We'll learn how to deal with this together. Lots of great people here to help us with that.
Comment by Jenn on October 2, 2008 at 2:13pm
hi everyone, i am jennifer. that is me in the middle in the pic and that was april with my real hair. today is a different story. i lost so much hair that i ended up shaving the rest of it off, lets face it a comb over on anyone is not attractive! i am having a lot of problems coping with this! i just don't know how to deal with it.
Comment by SylviaBonin2008 on September 30, 2008 at 2:20am
hello..
i am not sure, exactly, why i am loosing my hair (around the top-part)
at the moment.. my doctor said, could be "female pattern baldness"..
my-dear-god.. i cannot understand, why that is happening to me..
any help appreciated, thank you..

sylvia
Comment by DesertAngel on September 22, 2008 at 1:08am
I was diagnosed with scarring alopecia in July. I've been reading all I can on this form of alopecia. I still don't know if it will one day take all of my hair. I do know that some days the itching drives me crazy and the tender scalp is a downer too. My pattern of balding is a bit comical. Maybe I'll laugh at it next year because right now, I'm in no laughing mood.

I'm happy to have found this site though. I know in the days to come, this place will be an anchor for me (besides my family and friends. But they all have hair :p).
 

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