Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

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Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

This group is for people who are new to alopecia. It's a place to learn the essentials of coping and how to continue living life to the fullest despite the condition. More experienced alopecians are also invited to offer support and guidance.

Members: 545
Latest Activity: Feb 9, 2020

Tips for Coping with Alopecia from Day One

1. Love yourself unconditionally, with or without hair.

2. Consult a physician when you think your hair loss has become excessive or abnormal.

3. Get a second or third opinion if you need confirmation of a physician’s diagnosis.

4. Educate yourself about alopecia (hair loss), its many possible causes, traditional and alternative treatments, treatment costs, possible side-effects, and other options (e.g., wigs, scarves, etc.).

5. Remember that bald is beautiful, too.

6. Seek the advice of your physician and people who love and care about you before making decisions about treatments or lifestyle changes.

7. Join an alopecia support group to receive insight and inspiration from others who are living with hair loss.

8. Give others who may also be concerned (e.g., your employer, school, or church) appropriate information about your condition.

9. Maintain your emotional well-being by learning positive strategies for coping with depression, rejection, ridicule, stress, anxiety, and other negative feelings and experiences. Also develop conflict management skills, and other strong interpersonal skills, which you can use when dealing with people who choose to remain ignorant or insensitive. In other words, see a professional counselor, if you must.

10. Live life to the fullest, which includes allowing yourself to truly love and be loved and taking full advantage of the new opportunities alopecia opens to you.

Cheryl Carvery and richard jones (rj) encourage you to share these 10 helpful suggestions with others who are dealing with alopecia.

Discussion Forum

Scaring Alopecia

Started by Peace Apr 20, 2017. 0 Replies

Newly balding

Started by Momuv2. Last reply by Momuv2 Aug 23, 2015. 2 Replies

just diagnosed and scared...

Started by Catia. Last reply by Aly Dec 18, 2014. 5 Replies

How do I do this?

Started by MelodyAutumn. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 18, 2014. 6 Replies

Development of AA

Started by Cam. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 10, 2014. 1 Reply

New to this...

Started by ladyeury. Last reply by wtfsamikinz Nov 8, 2014. 2 Replies

Just diagnosed

Started by Kteacher. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 9 Replies

Children with alopecia in New Zealand

Started by MummyWendy. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 1 Reply

Getting Past the Pain - Three Things You Need to Know

Started by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Oct 13, 2014. 0 Replies

Sad

Started by bobbi. Last reply by BarbaraK Oct 5, 2014. 8 Replies

B-12 shots

Started by Michelle Jun 27, 2014. 0 Replies

Just realized it's probably not coming back...

Started by SBXBlackJade. Last reply by Angie Jun 16, 2014. 1 Reply

Question About AA and Eyelashes

Started by Michelle. Last reply by Kathryn Jun 11, 2013. 6 Replies

It's been a (long) Year

Started by Marissa. Last reply by Fay May 28, 2013. 5 Replies

New to this World

Started by Jackie E.. Last reply by Catia May 28, 2013. 9 Replies

Trying to learn how to move forward

Started by Lindsay Rossi. Last reply by Lindsay Rossi Apr 12, 2013. 3 Replies

Unpigmented regrowth?

Started by Jaclyn. Last reply by Annette Mar 30, 2013. 9 Replies

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Comment by Shane Beard on August 30, 2009 at 11:34am
Has anyone had PUVA treatment?
Comment by joannesummerside on August 20, 2009 at 2:03pm
im not coping with my hair loss each day gets harder not easier i have a wig and my husband and children says it looks so natural but i cant accept my hair has started to grow a little but will this last
Comment by Essence on July 30, 2009 at 9:01pm
Hello,

i'm not really new to Alopecia. i've had it for over 8 years but i wanted to pass by and show my support to those who are, in fact, new to alopecia... especially the younger generation. i am here to help and share my experiences =)

~ Essence =P
Comment by LeslieAnn Butler on July 29, 2009 at 8:46pm
Candace, don't worry if you don't feel like going without your wig. It's not a bad thing, and nothing to be ashamed of. I have had alopecia for many years and I don't go out without a wig. It's a choice, like anything else -- whatever makes you feel comfortable -- that's what you should do.
LeslieAnn
Comment by candace renee meade on July 29, 2009 at 12:04pm
well, i shaved my head back in may and i still cant go out with out the wig! i wish i could let go!
Comment by Kristen Viveros on June 15, 2009 at 6:33pm
To Misti, You are not deformed at all. I have never seen you with hair, so I am seeing you for the first time with a bandanna on your head and I think that you are beautiful.
I know that this is very hard to deal with. I shaved my head for the first time a little over a month ago. Everyone around me was shocked. It happened so fast that I think maybe they didn't believe me. But, I don't care what everyone else thinks. I had to do a little bit a soul searching, but I finally realized that I am still me, with or without hair. My hair didn't talk to people. My hair didn't solve problems for me. I know that sounds funny, but its true. I am still me and I am totally comfortable with it. It's everyone around me who is not so comfortable with me being bald.
They think about it more than I do.
What frustrates me the most is that when people see me, it seems like they only see my bald head. Everyone is constantly making comments about my head. "when is it going to grow back?" "why do you keep shaving it, let it grow and see what happens."
I went off today about that... I had a long week of everyone pressuring me to let it grow, touching my head, smacking me on top my head. I have had enough. So the next person who said something about my head was my one friend, she said "You shaved your head again, didn't you? I thought you was going to let it grow?" So since I was already mad, this remark was some serious over kill for me. I said "you know what? I am tired of everyone constantly talking about my head or my hair. What is the big f^ing deal weather I have hair or not. Its my head and I am comfortable like this, so why is everyone else so uncomfortable?" Then I broke down crying for the first time since I have been bald. I wasn't crying because I am bald. It was more because I am so frustrated with everyone around me pointing, touching, smacking, and making stupid bald jokes. So from now on I am going to shave my head everyday until it all falls out so that everyone will get used to be being bald and eventually maybe they will finally shut up about my bald head.
Comment by Anna Grayson on May 28, 2009 at 4:15am
did anyone feel angry at thier hair? my hair was so long and i just couldnt deal with the gradual loss, hair brush constantly needing to be cleared out. i felt so mad? i guess. so i chopped it off! doing psychology i knew that therapy would only tell me to "take back control", so by cutting my hair short, meant i made a decison to finally call the shots,like i made the change, not the condition running the show for once. (oh btw not sayin u should cut it, just sharing my coping story) :) keep lookin good evryone!
Comment by Kayleigh George on May 26, 2009 at 11:38am
Hey Im new to this site and alopecia. I think this site is amazing as it took me ages to find places for support. There doesnt seem to be much and its like alopecia is very hush hush. Iv had so many people ask me if i have cancer. Which i guess most people associate hair loss with chemo.
kayleigh
Comment by Nitza on March 11, 2009 at 11:15pm
Hi Everyone,
l found my 2 patches on oct of 2008. by the time l was diagnosed on dec 31,2008 with A.A l had so lil left. what ever hair l had left l told my son to shave it off. it was not easy but l did it and felt much better. started treament the same day l was diagnogesd and know my hair is regrowing slowly but growing .l now that their is a chance that it could fall off again but thats ok with me.ill learn how to deal with it.
Comment by Ursula on February 19, 2009 at 3:06am
My funny experience I recently had with Alopecia...

I was with my younger sisters, I can see the pain in my family's eyes when they look at me, how sorry they feel, wishing they can do something to make me feel better about myself.

My way of trying to make "THEM" feel comfortable around me is to joke, make silly remarks etc...

My sister has a little brown puppy, it fur sheds so easily...

One of my sister's stood up and said "Oh look..."

A little chuck of fur rolled of my pants onto the floor;
I looked and said "Oh look... my eyebrow!" LOL

They couldn't help but laugh... I wish I had my camera to capture the expression on "THEIR" faces lol!

I love my sisters with all my heart... missing them ever so much right now!
I need a laugh, release all this stress!

Take Care all... God Bless!

Ursula
 

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