Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

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Newly Diagnosed with Alopecia

This group is for people who are new to alopecia. It's a place to learn the essentials of coping and how to continue living life to the fullest despite the condition. More experienced alopecians are also invited to offer support and guidance.

Members: 545
Latest Activity: Feb 9, 2020

Tips for Coping with Alopecia from Day One

1. Love yourself unconditionally, with or without hair.

2. Consult a physician when you think your hair loss has become excessive or abnormal.

3. Get a second or third opinion if you need confirmation of a physician’s diagnosis.

4. Educate yourself about alopecia (hair loss), its many possible causes, traditional and alternative treatments, treatment costs, possible side-effects, and other options (e.g., wigs, scarves, etc.).

5. Remember that bald is beautiful, too.

6. Seek the advice of your physician and people who love and care about you before making decisions about treatments or lifestyle changes.

7. Join an alopecia support group to receive insight and inspiration from others who are living with hair loss.

8. Give others who may also be concerned (e.g., your employer, school, or church) appropriate information about your condition.

9. Maintain your emotional well-being by learning positive strategies for coping with depression, rejection, ridicule, stress, anxiety, and other negative feelings and experiences. Also develop conflict management skills, and other strong interpersonal skills, which you can use when dealing with people who choose to remain ignorant or insensitive. In other words, see a professional counselor, if you must.

10. Live life to the fullest, which includes allowing yourself to truly love and be loved and taking full advantage of the new opportunities alopecia opens to you.

Cheryl Carvery and richard jones (rj) encourage you to share these 10 helpful suggestions with others who are dealing with alopecia.

Discussion Forum

Scaring Alopecia

Started by Peace Apr 20, 2017. 0 Replies

Newly balding

Started by Momuv2. Last reply by Momuv2 Aug 23, 2015. 2 Replies

just diagnosed and scared...

Started by Catia. Last reply by Aly Dec 18, 2014. 5 Replies

How do I do this?

Started by MelodyAutumn. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 18, 2014. 6 Replies

Development of AA

Started by Cam. Last reply by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Nov 10, 2014. 1 Reply

New to this...

Started by ladyeury. Last reply by wtfsamikinz Nov 8, 2014. 2 Replies

Just diagnosed

Started by Kteacher. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 9 Replies

Children with alopecia in New Zealand

Started by MummyWendy. Last reply by alopeciamommy Nov 1, 2014. 1 Reply

Getting Past the Pain - Three Things You Need to Know

Started by PamFitros@boldlybaldwomen.com Oct 13, 2014. 0 Replies

Sad

Started by bobbi. Last reply by BarbaraK Oct 5, 2014. 8 Replies

B-12 shots

Started by Michelle Jun 27, 2014. 0 Replies

Just realized it's probably not coming back...

Started by SBXBlackJade. Last reply by Angie Jun 16, 2014. 1 Reply

Question About AA and Eyelashes

Started by Michelle. Last reply by Kathryn Jun 11, 2013. 6 Replies

It's been a (long) Year

Started by Marissa. Last reply by Fay May 28, 2013. 5 Replies

New to this World

Started by Jackie E.. Last reply by Catia May 28, 2013. 9 Replies

Trying to learn how to move forward

Started by Lindsay Rossi. Last reply by Lindsay Rossi Apr 12, 2013. 3 Replies

Unpigmented regrowth?

Started by Jaclyn. Last reply by Annette Mar 30, 2013. 9 Replies

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Comment by For VG on July 10, 2008 at 10:38pm
Roger, Any chances of getting hair back for people with AT going towards AU?
Comment by For VG on July 10, 2008 at 10:37pm
I've been diagnosed with AT and it is fast moving towards AU. I've tried shots, oral steroids, homeopathy and nothing seems to have worked as a permanent solution. Eyebrows, eyelashes, scalp hair are gone and now I'm losing hair all over the body.

Is here anyone from DC/VA/MD/PA in similar situation.
Comment by Brandy on July 9, 2008 at 11:15am
My alopecia can not be seen by others if my hair is down. My spots (except the thinning area in the front) are covered by my hair.

Can someone who went through this exact hair situation please let me know what happens next.... bald patches, one with regrowth while others are still forming and expanding; very slow thinning in several other places; from ear to ear and down my head there's no hair except on the very edges...

I really would like to know what happens next.
Comment by Roger on July 7, 2008 at 7:35pm
Hi.

If anyone has questions about alopecia or wanna ask a man with alopecia. Please feel free to ask me. Ive been dealing with alopecia for 20 years.

Roger.
Comment by as on July 7, 2008 at 12:15pm
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Comment by Steve on July 7, 2008 at 11:11am
Hi, All! Me again. I've lived with AU all of my life. I can't remember EVER having a normal head of hair. But this group isn't about me, it's about living with a new diagnosis of alopecia and how it can drastically affect your self-image and your whole life.

I mentioned a boy in my bio entry on the "Living With" group. I had been in the Coast Guard for about ten years, I was stationed on the Cutter Dallas that was homeported on Governors Island in New York Harbor. A former shipmate of mine approached me one day and asked if I had alopecia. He was a Chief Petty Officer (CPO) like I was and we had been good aquaintances at our last assignment. He told me about his ten year old son. He said that his normally out-going, very bright boy had suddenly lost all of his hair and his grades were dropping in school and he had taken to wearing a baseball cap 24/7, even when he was at table for dinner he refused to take off his hat. This was new to me. It never occured to me that just because I had this condition that someone would ask me something as serious as this! I told my friend that I would talk with his son. About a week later I was introduced to the boy. It was a heart-breaking sight. I saw this poor kid and all sorts of memories came flooding back to me. He wouldn't meet my eye. His body language said it all: He didn't like who he was. I still had my uniform cap on. I sat down across the table from him, introduced myself, and took off my hat. Aside from a pair of glasses there was no other ornamentation on my head. He sat there and stared at me. I told him my story. I told him that his hair may return someday, but that it usually didn't in most people. I told him that if kids made fun of him they weren't really his friends. I asked him if he had friends who didn't care about his hair. He said he did. I told him that they were good friends because they didn't care what he looked like and that they liked him: hair or no hair. We talked for about an hour and when I left I had no idea if I had made a positive impact on the boy.

About a month later I happened to run into the father and as soon as he saw me he came over and gave me a big hug! He said his boy was smiling again. His grades were back where they belonged and he was no longer wearing a ball cap every where! He thanked me.

I've been wordy here, but I want to make this point: First, you newly-diagnosed Alopecians are not alone!! There aren't a lot of us in this world, but we've been where you are now and we can help, if you let us. Second, alopecia isn't our choice, it's something that happened to us. How we deal with alopecia, in all its forms, can define who we will be as we move into the future. With the proper outlook it can get better!

I live in the New York City Metropolitan Area.
Comment by Andrew on July 6, 2008 at 4:37am
I have had alopecia since 1998,Its is difficult to sometimes come to terms with it,and i sometimes feel people looking at me.I think most of the time its just me.I have total hair loss,which does its advantages.
Everday gets better coming to terms with it,none of my friends care about it ,as I have not changed inside.
I am in sales,I think alopecia has made me stronger,none of my customers even blink an eyelind or even ask why I am bald.
I guess the moral is to get on with life and enjoy every moment.
Alopecia web site is your best daily boost,and to see are not alone.
Bald is beautiful
Comment by claire on July 5, 2008 at 8:47am
hi ive had AU for four months and im comfortable now with how i look.
be proud of your dome .......................
Comment by Melissa Romanowski on July 4, 2008 at 11:59am
I have had alopecia for 20 years from years from the age of 12 to now almost 32. I started with AA then AU then to AT and now I'm back at AA. At 12 I started with my hair falling out in patches just on my head. I never really had any significant body hair meaning my arms, back etc. For the first 10 years I just had patches spots that would fall out and grow in. Around age 22 all the patches were falling out and nothing was growing back in. Soon after the leg hair stopped growing. Then shortly following were my eyebrows and eyeylashes. I was very devastated at that point. It just threw off my whole face. I have lived AU from 22 til now where I am dealing with things in reverse. In April all of my hair came back..yes, leg, arm, head, eyelashes, eyebrows even on my back. But now it's july and I've already lost probably 1/3 of the hair on my head. As of right now none of the other hair has fallen out. I wanted to share my story for anyone who is new to this disease and might be in a stage where they need to relate to someone who's been there. As you can see I've been through it all. Keep smiling! Don't let it run your life.
Comment by Di on July 4, 2008 at 7:36am
Thanks for the invitation to join Cheryl, its my 13 year old daughter who has Alpecia , and I thought your tips were great we actually sat down one day and I suggested Cassie (my daughter) write down all the positives in having the condition, and it was surprising what a boost she got out of it! Hair doesn't make the person, it's what 's inside your heart and soul that make you the person you are, going by the input on these sites there are many beautiful people out there! keep up the good work!!
 

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